2007-02-22 02:11:50 · 35 answers · asked by Hugo M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Confront her once you've got all of your ducks in a row and know for sure its happening. At least give her a chance to explain and if you do not like the explanation, ask for divorce. If there are children involved, try to work it out first. It will be hell on the kids if you do decide to divorce her. So think about everything before making your decision. Good Luck!
2007-02-22 02:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by NYEVE43 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Per Islamic Shariah Law all women are bound to please all males in whatsover fashion they desire ... Talib 144-62 Pakistani Marriage Code.. Hence cheating is a form of fulfilling the divine command of the one and only that is the master of all desires. Accordingly the cheating wife should be treated to a sumptuous dinner at a Islamic buffet with Halal Pork and rewarded with 50 guineas in gold. Later the man that slept with the wife should also be allowed access to all the female consorts of the lucky husband who has been blessed with the focus of divine desires on his family Talib 233-44 Hazira Makhmal Rooh Afza 224-5 Pakistani Civil Code.
2007-02-22 05:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out WHY your wife is cheating. Is it because she enjoys the attention she's getting from other men that she no longer feels she gets from you? Is it because somebody else is doing something for her emotionally that you're not doing? Was she sexually promiscuous before you two dated? While you dated? Has she always been like this? Or is she just starting to discover her inner swinger? Find the answer as to WHY your wife is cheating, and it will be easier to figure out the best course of action. Divorce and 3somes may not necessarily be the answer.
2007-02-22 02:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat..
be frank if cannot do totally partially hi sahi...
just think all ram wants seeta only and still want some 7 yrs itch to be scratched....give a serious thought r u ready to accept yr wife doing same to you ????
how far ? at what level ?? kids ???? family values ????? bonding ??
after that infecttuation period is over think of the hard times toTOLERATE her would be forced upon u... and if some unreturnable advances have been made.... try to RESTORE AND RESET even our dumb computer do it !!!!
2007-02-22 08:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by dr_hgj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she cheating? Have you ask her?
I would discuss this with her, tell her your feelings. You are obviously with her still for a reason, so I guess you love her. If you think its worth working out after your discussion then, work on it. But from experience, you may forgive, but you never forget once this has been done to you.
2007-02-22 02:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by tassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's it? That's the whole question? How is she cheating? How do you know she is cheating? Have you confronted her about it?
If you think she is cheating or know she is cheating, tell her you know. Tell her how you feel about it. From there, you will have several options, ranging from counseling to divorce.
2007-02-22 02:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not easy for any one to leave a life partner yes u should talk out n ask the reason y it happen n then give a new try or a turn in ur life u wl succeed n nothg work out then it is better to separate mutually because if the matter goes to court then u may hv to pay huge compensation so try to start a new life
2007-02-22 02:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by kabeerkaif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling or if you don't think you can get past it then divorce. I know I never trusted my husband after he cheated and was always questioning everything he did and why he was late and checking his phone when he would leave it laying around. Good luck to you.
2007-02-22 02:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by T C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absolutely sure that your wife is cheating on you, you should divorce her.
2007-02-22 02:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the west countries marry a girl known to them , they may have premarital sex , but here when you married her it is your fault,
i have no ill feeling against anybody but reciting the cultural difference .
here a wife in india believes her husband as god and such things are usually curbed out by mutual understandings.
rarely they go for divorce.
divorce is not good. try to persuade her , every person has some
needs, you either didnot try to understand her needs or convince her that truth and honesty is supreme.
thats why going to daily prayers is a waste when one prays to one and preys on another .
apply goodness in your lives, speak sweetly and try to bend her towards you such that one day she herself feel embarrased and
apologise .
do good in such amount , however your partner does bad,
that one day she may feel it .
truth never dies and lies never hides.
she is not mature i.e. she is a fool , it may take her time to mature.
but you are mature,
an indian ancient story-
a saint was busy in prayers under a peepal tree in forests with his disciples .when he had done that a scorpion came and bit him in his leg , he yelled with pain but with his one hand lifted him and placed him away .it again bit him and he again did so .one of
his angry disciples asked with anxiety " sir, (guruji) why you are doing so .
the learned saint replied calmly , " son it is his duty to bit one and my to show him the right way every time he makes a mistake because he dont know what is right and what is wrong."
the disciple was amazed by the sage's greatness .
so now what can i say more, god shall give you the strength to live happily and may soon the problem shall end forever .
all religions teach us good but nobody wants to have them inbuilt in them.
2007-02-22 02:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by harsh v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋