im 22 years old , and i see psychologist, i love her so much more than my mother, and i wish if she see me as her daughter. how can i tell her that? im afraid if she will not accept that ( to treat me like her daughter and worry about me ).i depend on her, but she said : you shouldnt depend on my forever.how can i let her ( to love ) me as her daughter.
2007-02-22 01:59:24 · 7 answers · asked by UAE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This happens alot. Patients get hung up for their therapist, or some other caregiver. A counselor is trained in these matters also, it's one of the problems that can de-rail the work that's been done. Recognize in her position she will not begin that sort of relationship you want. It would be considered unethical.
2007-02-22 02:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU can't make anyone love you. I think you should get a different psychologist; this one isn't doing you much good if she has allowed your feelings to get this far off the beam.
2007-02-22 10:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by justchillin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm humm I think your psychologist is just doing her job..and i doubt you can make her love you as her daughter...just forget it and try and fix your relationship with your REAL mom
2007-02-22 10:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sugestion is to tell her how much you trust and appreciate her. Tell her that she is "like a mother" but I would leave it at that. You can not make someone love you, but you can try!!!
2007-02-22 10:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... you can let her know how you feel...I think the reason why feel that you love her is because you can express your feelings and be your self around her...Can she love you like you where her kid...Yess ...
2007-02-22 10:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are CONFUSED
Is it your friends mom, your mom, who's mom. who ever it is just tell them.
2007-02-22 10:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CANT MAKE ANYONE LOVE YOU!
2007-02-22 10:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by T.SUGGS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋