i have been seeing this guy for four months i got pregnant and he told me he didnt want anything to do with me to get an abortion. then the truth came out that he lied to me and used me.
2007-02-22 01:55:53 · 7 answers · asked by confusedansneedhelp 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Abortion is never the right answer. There are many ppl in this ocuntry who want children and can't have them...put it up for adoption.
Never do anything that your going to regret later in life and 95% of ladies regret they had abortion.
2007-02-22 02:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by James C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aren't losers like that guy grand?! they need punched in the nose.
whatever you do, hun, do it because YOU chose it, after carefully reviewing all your options.
that said, i was in a similar situation, right out of H.S. found out i was pregnant 2 wks before i was to start college. i was pretty messed up at the time, bulemic, on drugs, the whole shpeal. (i know, i know, BAD. but i had been raped several months earlier, yada yada..) my 'boyfriend' at the time (the father) said if i didn't get rid of it he'd dump me. so i aborted it (come to find out via ultrasound right before it was very unhealthy due to my idiocy, but that's beside the point)
the thing is, i've regretted it ever since. i ended up dumping that loser a few months later. i still remember when i was due, it was going to be near my own birthday, so every year i think "i would have a child having a birthday". this year they would be 9.
it was probably the logical choice to abort it, but it doesn't feel like it in my heart.
2007-02-22 10:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old are you? many teens cannot get an abortion without parents consent, that aside it is your own decision as to wether or not to have an abortion,
Keep in mind there are alot of couples eager to adopt that cannot have children of their own, they pay all medical expenses and some even pay to help you re-locate if you need to.there are alot of church based orginizations that will help you get in touch with the right couple should you decide adoption is right for you : Catholic social services Lutheran social services to name a few, they help withcounciling as well.
Should you decide to keep the baby being a single mother is hard work but not impossible with a strong network of family and friends.
Just remember its not his decision it is yours and he will still be responsible for paying child support if you decide to keep your baby
I would not reccomend the abortion just in my opinion , I was pro choice until I saw a program recently on twins video in the womb
they were interacting with eachother as early as 10 weeks old
2007-02-22 10:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
being a single parent is not easy. if your not ready for 100% of the parental responsibility then you do what is best for you. and you surly do not have a child for revenge, the child support you may or may not receive doesn't even come close to the expenses of raising a child. i'm sorry your going through this, but it will get better & it will make you stronger & wiser. good luck to you.
2007-02-22 10:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by tire chick 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's entirely up to you what to do. I would talk to a family member or friend you trust.
Go and see a counsellor.
And as soon as you DO decide what to do, go the planned parenthood, get checked for STDs and get on the pill. Take control of your life.
2007-02-22 10:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Waiting and Wishing 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well if your going to get because you don't want the baby than go ahead but if your going to do it because he said than no it is only your decision its your baby do what you think is the best for both you and the baby good luck
2007-02-22 10:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by bskylue 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no don't have an abortion! if you don't want to keep the baby put it up for adoption.
or keep it and make his sorry *** pay child support!
2007-02-22 09:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by 'Lissa 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋