Have u ever felt that no1 luvs u???

Question

I often feel this thing that no1 likes me, except my best frnd,,,,,, Many times my parents & brother shows hatred..... even i sometimes feel that my parents like my bro more because he's good at studies & in everything. I feel like weeping,,,, even they dont let me to talk 2 boys... I feel like committing suicide. I dont feel like sharing my feelings with any1. Pls suggest something.

Answer 1

During my adolescent age, I felt that but as time goes on I overcome that one. You have a best friend that cares a lot about you, so dont feel sorry. Just pray hard

Answer 2

I think you should talk to your parents and let them know how you feel. Tell them that it hurts you when you feel that they are not interested in your life, and when they show favoritism towards your brother. You should not commit suicide because, from the way it sounds, you are still young and have a big future in front of you. If no-one else cares about you, I do because I have been in your shoes. You may want to consider getting some professional help for your depression. I would suggest praying about it, but when I was your age I did not believe in the power of prayer. Every day you wake up has the potential to be wonderful or miserable and, ultimately, the decision rests solely upon you. I hope you make it through this difficult time and see that it can get better.

Answer 3

You know... you'll meet a lot of jerks in your life. I don't know if your parents are or not or if your one of the overly- sensitive types that blame your misfortunes on everything other than your viewpoint. But regardless it's still your responsibility (as it is for all mature adults) to accept and/or endure things to where your happiness and peace of mind are not dependent on other people. When you're around decent people, the love or lack there-of will be reciprocated back to you. On the other hand people with low characters will not because they're caught up in their own stuff and can't be expected to behave in a reasonable, healthy way. Look to yourself and seek tools to get a better/more realistic perspective on the world.

Answer 4

I always felt that my mom liked my brother better than she did me and I often felt unloved at home. My brother seemed to be made of pure gold and was always very mean to me. My mom used to tease me about having a persecution complex and really hurt my feelings. Dad used to yell at us all to just learn to get along. I cried many times over these things. Finally, someone told me that I needed to forget about how they might feel about me and figure out whether or not I loved myself. They were right! I started looking for things I thought were good about me and gave myself pats on the back for the good. Whenever I thought something was maybe not so good about me, I worked to try and change that into something good. Now it doesn't bother me anymore even if my parents did love my brother better than me. I like me. I try to do what is right and do my very best at whatever I do. It was kind of tough being young and having to survive all that, but now that I'm older, I have a better outlook on life and how to deal with what comes by way. When the going gets tough, the tough get going. Dig in deep and pull out the good things that you can find to think about in yourself. If you mess up, don't worry, we all do. You are a beautiful person with a lot to give in this world and you can do it! Come on now. Give it a try! Just love you for who and what you are and don't worry about that brother of yours. There is only one YOU and you are the greatest!

Answer 5

Are you trying in school? Are you misbehaving? The reason that they dont really want you to talk to boys is that they do love you, and they love you enough not to let you ruin your life by getting pregnant. It doesnt say much about their trust in you, but they do love you. Sit and listen to them, find out why theyre so angry. Youre parents love you, no matter what. Just see what you can do to make it better. Suicide is never the answer, It wont make anything better, and you wont be able to see whether or not theyre sad that youre gone. best of luck

Answer 6

i can relate- i've often felt that way. Think about your life and how blessed you should be to be healthy-others are dying to be in your shoes in some way or the other. Speak to your parents about their interests and share yours with them-maybe they feel like you're shutting them out in some way. Find something fun to do together. Drop the suicide thought & when all else fails REMEMBER: you are WORTHY, things will CHANGE, others are WORSE OFF than you, and you are LOVED! goodluck

Answer 7

often at teenage years ppl do feel like that. sometimes i also think like that.then i start to think the love my parents pour on me. then i forget about all the sad things. u have to let ur parents know your feelings. or your mum coz woman are easoer to talk to. normally parents dote on boys more coz they continue the family line just what in chinese family do. same thing happen during my mother's years. but u hv to prove to ur parents and let them know that u can also be s gd s ur brother or better than him. i will always support you.

Answer 8

First, you need to chill out! Your only 13, you have plenty of time to find love for someone! Are you sure that your "Bi" at 13? Or are you Bi-curious? I think you just need to sit back and get some school done before jumping into anything... trust me..I'VE BEEN there girl!

Answer 9

you know what, your parents are like mine. my little brother's so perfect and all, so they like him better. and what, im not supposed to date until im 25? thats crap really. but the thing is, you have a best friend, which is something im hoping to find in my life. maybe you should pry your eyes a little wider to see that your best friend would understand how you feel about things.

Answer 10

It's not true. This problem will be solved, as soon as you tell your parents how you feel in details.