i don't want my marriage to end but if this never ends
2007-02-22 01:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Comics & Animation
there's a very popular saying "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice shame on me." not that she isn't at fault for cheating on you, but at this point you have figured out that it won't end.
relationships are built on trust and without it, they fall apart. you have to trust her to be with her, and i can't imagine you trusting her after doing this to you. without trust you can't have a healthy relationship, and unhealthy relationships lead to serious problems. YOU know the answer to your own question. i would guess you just want people to tell you that it is the right thing to do.
the right thing to do is whatever is best for you, not her.
2007-02-22 01:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jenessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to choose between staying in your marriage being a cuckold, or divorce your unfaithful wife and live a decent life next to a faithful woman (there are many good women out there, don't imprison yourself with the immoral one you are now married to).
2007-02-22 09:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by markos m 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is the second time she's done it...then honestly..she'll just keep doing it...Dont try to work through it, but if thats what you really want..give her an ultimatum to either change or your leaving..Hope everything goes good for you
2007-02-22 09:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by lil_luman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you forgave her once then you are already a deluded loser.
Once a cheating whore always a cheating whore.
face it- this time it is your fault because you weren't smart enough or didn't have balls enough to leave the first time.
its harsh and you dont' like it but that is reality for you.
2007-02-22 15:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I wouldn't do it again. once, well yeah, a couple can work through and sort of get over..twice- no way..get rid of the cheater, heal, and then get on with your life. she obviously doesn't care if she is hurting you and obviously doesn't care to work things through again..not much you can do except get a divorce
2007-02-22 09:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Again? Forgiving her once is enough. If you still want her, go get some on the side yourself. See how she takes it.
2007-02-22 09:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by grumpyoldman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should end it. it would save you a lot of heart ache
2007-02-22 09:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you get off the internet and spent time with her, she wouldn't bee looking for another man.
B-Cool
2007-02-22 10:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
did you mean to list this question in "comics and animation"?
2007-02-22 09:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have a talk with her.
2007-02-22 09:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by coldblooded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋