You see, I'm going out with this girl, but my best friend likes her, too, and when he found out I was going out with her, he got all upset. So, once I found out he was upset, I broke up with her. Now he's telling me that he's better now and I should ask her out again. Right now, we're all friends, and I could ask her out again if I wanted to because she doesn't like him, she likes me.
What should I do?
2007-02-22 01:04:45 · 18 answers · asked by clevens 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
look you seem to be a good guy but what you did was not right.every one does mistakes and i understand what you have been through . now you can fix the situation .you should come back to her and apologize and she has the right to say no. but if she accepted u must know that she is the best gf you will ever have...good luck
2007-02-22 01:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by love2share 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on if you want to go out with her again. If you were willing to dump her just because your friend became upset, then you probably weren't very attached to her emotionally, however I may be wrong. Does she know why you dumped her? It doesn't seem very fair to her to be in the dark, especially if you are considering asking her out again. If you want to go out with her again, explain to her what happened. In the end, it's up to her to decide if she wants to go out with you again. Just as a forewarning, she may be upset that you had the nerve to ask her out again. I know I would.
2007-02-22 09:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by ♫ Melody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your friend gave you the go ahead, then it should be okay for you to ask her out again. but it really depends on which relationship you value more; the girl's or your best friends. in my opinion, girls/boys will come and go in your life that you like but when you find a FRIEND, you should hold onto them. so if this girl might be to the death of your friendship, you might as well let her go.
2007-02-22 09:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by cute_but_psycho876 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out, if your friend is really telling the truth, then he should'nt have a problem. Try explaining to your ex that is was a mistake and apologize.
2007-02-22 09:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as your friend again if its okay to go out with her. just make sure of it because if you don't and you get back with her. that would upset him. talk to him first.
2007-02-22 12:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he got upset because u went out with her that not much of a friendship. i belive in friendships,but i dont belive in being that way. next time ask him what he fells about it b4 u breack up. good luck. glad it worked out that way.
2007-02-22 09:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by sugumo292006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid! You are the worst friend a girl could have, but a good friend to your best friend and a very awful friend to yourself! Think about that!
2007-02-22 09:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Dame D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you were stupid for breaking up with her just because someone else like her. Totally Dumb!!!!! She didn't like him, she liked YOU. Sounds like you have a jealous streak in you. Now it may be too late.
2007-02-22 09:08:04 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out its clear that u like her an i bet she really likes u dnt be bothered about ur friend jus go for it
2007-02-22 09:27:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww. you dork! y did you do that, you should have stayed with te girl you liked i mean " A friend isn't a friend if he makes you choose" so , if he says he's alright with you and her now, than wut the heck are you waiting for ask her back out.
-lexis
2007-02-22 09:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by lexis_renee' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋