I know it may probably sound rather stupid, but this is the thing that worries me: I am nearly 22, but still haven't found a person who could be right for me. I did have couple of boyfriends though, unfortunately, it didn't work out into something longer lasting than 6 months. Now I have this problem falling in love. I haven't been in love for nearly 3 years... I have quite a lot of guy friends, but they all just seem so unsutable for me :( It's not that i've got sooo high criterias for them, I just wish them to be smart, intelligent (up to my level of development, so to say) and tall :) None of them has got all the features :) I did dating as well, but it also ended with disappointment. I am not obsessed with the idea of finding somebody, I am rather satisfied with my life, but thing without being with special someone makes me sad a bit, especially around Valentine's day when all the hearts and lovers are around ;-) So when did you find your soulmate? And shouldn't I give up?:)
2007-02-22 01:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I was 24 I became completely sick of dating because the relationships never worked out. I would look at a guy and think, "He looks interesting, but he's a workaholic and I know how that one ends" or "He's an egomaniac and I know how that one ends" etc. I talked myself out of dating because if I knew it wasn't going to work out then I'd rather not start at all. I didn't date for over a year.
Then one day I was sitting in the lobby at work and a man walked through the door. It was like someone had set off a flashbulb in my face - that overwhelming. I knew he would be the one - and he was.
We dated for 2 years, then got married. So far we've been married for 16 years. As we say, 16 down, eternity to go. Trust me, it's better to wait for the right one than to force yourself to be the wrong one just to be with somebody.
2007-02-22 01:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Queen of Cards 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just found my soulmate and i'm 36. I've had a string of failed relationships and had pretty much given up but have met the most wonderful guy now and am really happy.
So never give up and you're still young and there is plenty of time for you to find the one!!
And i found my soul mate on a dating site!! So even they work. But it will happen when you least expect it.
Good luck
2007-02-22 04:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nicky D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found him at 15. We married at 19, but divorced before 22...we were too young and stupid to make it work.
I found him again (same guy!) at 28. The difference was amazing. We've been back together for 3 1/2 years now, and we have yet to have an argument!
Keep the faith. It'll happen when it happens!
2007-02-22 01:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by Meg M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never give up. I almost did. I went through 2 very bad marriages, and a few bad relationships. I thought when I loved, I would be loved back. That wasn't the case. I was ready to give up on men for good....but then, I met my soul mate. We have been in heaven for the last 6 years! When I tell you to never give up I mean it. I met Daniel when I was 48 years old! This proves that your soul mate IS out there for you. I pray and hope for you that you find him sooner than I found mine.
2007-02-22 01:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by champion of the underdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 22? You're still a baby. You have plenty of time. Don't rush it. Take your time, get to know somebody before you get overly involved, and learn to appreciate men, who like you , are in no huge rush.
If you rush into something, there's a much bigger chance you'll wind up on here asking for advice regarding your divorce.
2007-02-22 01:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in relationship longer than a month...Until 22...It was "love at first sight" ( you can belive it or not )...And it slowly grew...We're getting married in three months...
But I'm the person who belives in "love at first sight".And I wouldn't say that I used to have problem falling in love...I just knew that I will meet HIM one day-and when that happens I will know stright away that it is THE ONE.
Call me old fashioned
2007-02-22 01:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by Leoraysa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a different thing and one can not fall in love intently. its a feeling which come from heart automatically. so dont bother and one may get their soulmate even without falling in love.
2007-02-22 01:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the two one among them. i think precisely as Bella does. i like Jacob, nonetheless he's obnoxious and pushy and that i like Edward, nonetheless he's over-maintaining. Edward's extra ideal nonetheless, i think of. everybody has flaws. His ONE flaw is that he's over-maintaining, huge freaking whoop, spectacular? So I do love Jacob, yet i like Edward too. Like, you understand how maximum human beings the two hate Jake and love Edward, or hate Edward and love Jacob? properly i'm neither!
2016-11-24 23:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found mine at 19, and i just knew, every pot has a lid, u will find ur lid. dnt give up but dnt wait around for it. it will come when its ready to come, maybe then ull have a different outlook on giving up!!! DNT GIVE UP!!! please dnt, love is such a beautiful thing, wouldnt want u to miss out on it, and u wnt!!!
2007-02-22 02:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Lee K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to think along these lines. Relax and enjoy being your age.
2007-02-22 01:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋