* All my friends got their hearts broken, some just in 5 months and some after 4yrs.
* My cousins are all married to the "Perfect guy", same family background etc- guy I like is not from the same background. our families consider our backgrounds alot.
2007-02-22 01:00:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is a quote that only to love and lose is the only way to know you were ever in true love, unfortunatly darling if you want to feel love and be loved you have to face the chances of getting hurt. Its not nice at all i know and besides kissing the toads before you meet your prince charming can be fun, and also when you do meet prince charming it will make him extra special has you have hurt and lost in order to find him!
2007-02-22 01:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chel1525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, such is life. There is always an element of doubt when entering into a relationship. Of course there is a chance you will get hurt. 2 out of 3 people do, according to the last survey. But, what are you going to do? Never enter a relationship so you won't get hurt? I'm afraid you have to accept the possibility there will be a chance of you getting your heart broken, and I know it hurts so much. It can be devastating, It can feel like the person has died on you. But, you cannot go through life not taking chances, otherwise you would spend the rest of your life not trying to have a relationship and then all your left with is the "What Ifs?" And then it's to late. I know it's hard, I know it's scary, just think how scary it is for a guy to go up to a girl and ask them out. And the fear they have of rejection and humiliation. so, the next time you meet a guy that you have feelings for and the feelings are reciprocated. Take a deep breath and say yes. You may get hurt. But at least you won't be sitting there at the end of days thinking "If only" because I can assure you, being in that position now, made me realise all the things that I didn't do for one reason or another. Remember, you sometimes only get one chance. So, take it. If it goes wrong, you will heal. I hope you find what your looking for and don't have to face the tragedies that can really effect your life.
2007-02-22 01:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be put off from having a relationship, because your friends' have had their hearts broken in the past. It's not an indication that it will automatically happen to you as well. Unfortunately there are no 100% guarantees that any relationship will last forever, but the quote by W.Shakespeare 'it's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all' is very true. Try to think positive and imagine all the fun and happiness you can have in a relationship with someone you really care for and love, when they feel the same for you. All of us shy away from things that may ultimately hurt us, but if you never take that leap of faith, you'll never know.
Regarding your family backgrounds, if you really like this guy you're interested in, and he like you too, I'd just accept his invitation to go out, or ask him out yourself, and see how it goes. You can take into account your family's view, but make your own decision. If you really love each other, your family and social backgrounds should make no difference. They may to others, but that's their problem & not yours. It's what makes you happy that matters. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-22 01:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Starman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its understandable that you are scared, but there are things you can do to protect yourself. Just be honest with the guy and tell him you want to take things slowly, dont let yourself be pressurised. At the end of the day, relationships are all about compromise, reaching the balance that suits both partners. It would be a shame if you lived the rest of your life in fear of having a boyfriend. Give it a chance, dont expect too much from it and take it at your own pace. You many even enjoy it! Good luck.
2007-02-22 01:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. You have plenty of time to figure this out. If you are not ready for a relationship there is no shame in that. Don't go down that road until you are ready. Work on your education, your future goals, spend time with family, relax a little. Things will fall in to place eventually.
2007-02-22 01:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by littleredhen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you scared of? A broken Heart?
Well we have all had our hearts broken but it makes us stronger, you don't want to be on your own forever do you.
I had to kiss alot of frogs to find my Mr Perfect. I really believe that there is someone out there for everyone.
You have just got to hold your breath and jump in. Who knows he may be mr right he may not be but have fun finding out : ) x x x
go girl jump in....................
2007-02-22 01:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have got to take the risk of getting your heart broken to have a relationship. there is never a 100% gaurantee that it will work out. that's all part of life..but fun when you do meet the right person... good luck
2007-02-22 02:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by curlyloxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stressing, just get on with it, go out with someone, have a bit of fun, and if it starts getting serious then great, enjoy it.
we all get our hearts broken a few times in our lives but its always a lesson learnt from that experience and it make us a better person and helps us decide what we want in life.
Take no notice of family, do what you want, go out with who you want, not who they want.
2007-02-22 01:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so bothered about what your family priorities are? It's you that would be in the relationship, not them. If you never take a chance on life, you'll be a very lonely person.
2007-02-22 01:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by jet-set 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋