i have kids and he has kids....not sure of the attraction cause we are nothing alike but when i see him my heart races and i feel like like a teen again......his wife is kinda my friend and she has told me some bad stuff she done now i feel like im caught and dont know what to do........
2007-02-22 00:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by sara b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok thanks for advise it really helps! no im not in church and yeah thats where i need to be....i know! but when your husband is in ur face 24-7 accusing me of this just makes me want to do bad things...i know this is not only me feeling this way. i had no attraction to this guy until i was accused of it day in and day out.....
2007-02-23 01:10:44 · update #1
I think you need to stay away from this other couple. "The grass isn't always greener on the other side" If your husband asks why you don't want to hang out with them anymore tell him you don't agree with some of the things that are going on there relationship and when his wife tells you about them it makes to uncomfortable! And about the feelings you are having.. alot of times when your not as close as you should be to each other your mind not your heart leads you some where else.. The best advice I can give is
#1. You need to pray that God will take these feelings for another man away from you and help heal your marriage.
#2. Get your family in church ..if you are in church shame on you and you should know better.
2007-02-22 01:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by BlondGrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust, not love.
It's ok to be attracted to him, but you need to repect the marriages involved and not do anything to destroy them.
Next time your heart starts racing, you think about the people around you two that would be hurt, the spouses and all the children that would be caught in that mess.
There are alot of lives that are hooked together here, and you can affect them all.
Try not to be selfish worriing about your own lustful urges and take care of your marriage and your family.
If you don't trust yourself, stay away from him.
2007-02-22 01:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect his marriage. And your own. YOu have each made lives for yourselves, and I don't imagine that what you are feeling is any more then a crush. Liek you said you feel like you are in high school again. If you feel you want out of your marriage, then you have to either get busy leaving, or get busy staying.
2007-02-22 01:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there really is not attraction this is infatuation and lust and that is all. You are not in love with him you are just in love with the idea of being with him. Work on your marriage and stay away from him and tell him to work on his marriage. You need to sit down with your husband and tell him about this . Seek counseling and help for you and for your marriage if need be. He needs to work on his marriage with his wife too.
2007-02-22 01:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice to you is stay out of it and don't get involved, and stay away from her husband because you are married and so is he. you would destroy your marriage and his.File for a divorce if your not happy.
2007-02-22 01:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool around with him, just don't get caught
2007-02-22 01:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep thoughts to yourself and stay with hubby.
2007-02-22 01:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A DIVORCE
2007-02-22 01:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋