plz help!!!!!?

Question

During our courtship my husband was very enthusiastic about sex.but we r married for 2 months now and my husband doesnt make love to me even once a day.we have sex say once a week or two. i'm frustrated...what could be the reason?? he loves me very much n takes care of me very well....but dont understand him...plz help.

i did tried to initiate n seduce him...but he just avoids me....we both love each other very much

Answer 1

Well i will put it this way as i have to be honest with you here. He is doing this because now he has you and is comfortable with you. He had you and earned you before marriage and had sex then and has won you so now that he has married you he feels that he owns you and that should be good enough. He already has won the prize so to speak. He sampled the goods before marriage so he knows what he has and does not have to sample anymore. Very sad but true. I feel you need marriage counseling and help and try spicing things up in the bedroom with him as well. Talk with him and tell him how you are feeling too and ask him why he is acting so differernt now then what he used to.

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Answer 2

Not even once a day? OMG.
Life is more than sex, but obviously it is a big part of your relationship to you.
Don't read a bunch of drama into it.
I been married 18 years, we lucky to do it once a month, lol.
Other things take priority in your lives, sex becomes a smaller part of it.
I don't know if after 2 months it should fade away that fast, but just talk to him. Communication is the key.
I heard once that if you have a jar, and for the first 5 years of marriage put a penny in it every time you have sex.
And after 5 years take one out every time you have sex, you will never empty the jar.
WELCOME TO MARRIED LIFE

good luck.

Answer 3

Have you tried to initiate sex? HE could eb stressed tired or anything. Maybe you should try showing him how attracted to him you are. Touch him. kiss him. show him you like his affection. In a marriage honesty is important. Ask him if he even notices he doesnt touch you as much anymore.

Answer 4

let him make the moves. men need to think there in control. if this don't work , hide little notes n his cloths or his belonging. try a relaxing environment n set the mood up. try role playing or just something off the wall one will get his attention.

Answer 5

We went through this too. Talk to him about it, then just jump his bones. If he loves you as you say, he won`t be the one complaining a bit. Do it regularly if this works out for ya. It worked for me. My husband just wanted to be attacked and not the attacker.

Answer 6

You can and should take control by jumping his bones. Seduce him into it. Don't wait for him to be the initiator.

Answer 7

Everyday sex isn't the norm.... Hubby, at twice weekly, is right on target. Look it up for yourself. The figures are available on the web.

Perhaps getting up-to-snuff on what's considered normal and not will let you relax about your relationship. I hope so - we don't want you to be frustrated, do we?

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Answer 8

Talk to him maybe he's stressed out about work or he has something else on his mind. You could also initiate it and see what happens

Answer 9

I have no clue honey but don't feel alone my husband is doing the same thing now. I can't stand it.

Answer 10

GO ONTO HIM! you two are married i mean it doesn't matter who seduces who to start intercourse. if you want him everyday tell him you do. go all over him