I asked this earlier. Wanted more input.
sexually attractive to the point that they would possibly ENTERTAIN (not actually do) the idea of allowing their husband a threesome?
I know it's a loaded question, but i believe I speak for most heterosexual men when I say, we do not like the idea of another naked man in the bed with us because it's gross. Do women have this same grossed out feeling or can heterosexual women appreciate another woman's body
2007-02-22 00:52:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Speaking for myself, I would be repulsed if there was naked woman in my bed that I was supposed to touch and caress. I have no sexual attraction to women in any way shape or form. I am not homophobic. If that's what you like, that's great for you, but for me, keep the women out of my bed.
I wish I understood why a lot of men think that all women are closet lesbians or are secretly bi sexual.
And even if it was true (which it is sooo not), why would I let my husband have sex with another person just because I am in the room too. Nope, never gonna happen.
2007-02-22 01:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife does, and we've had plenty of threesomes with other women as well as with other men.
Just because you are all naked together doesn't mean there has to be any bisexual play, whether it's female or male. But I think that many men and women outside of the swinger lifestyle automatically assume that there is, at least with the women. But not all women are bi (sorry guys, it's the truth). Some still love the threesome idea though with another woman. It is a gift she gives to her husband. A FMF threesome is about spoiling the male just like a MFM threesome is about spoiling the female.
Yes, you do have to be comfortable being naked in the same room with someone of the same sex to do it. Keep in mind though that being uncomfortable is a learned response from society's views, it's not the natural way of things. People have been raised being told by parents and other that it's "icky" so that is what they believe. It's hard to reverse that conditioning.
Is my wife comfortable being naked in a room with another woman? Yes. And she is bi. But, she is selectively-bi, meaning she's not attracted sexually to all women any more then she is attracted sexually to all men. So no, although she's comfortable being naked with other women, she is not attracted to all women.
2007-02-22 05:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A threesome? Maybe some woman would. Those that have a homosexual curiousity and just plain nympho maniacs. But most women don't like sharing their men for any reason, even if they are entertaining that kind of fantasy of being with another woman. I believe that you should get all the stuff out of the way before you marry and settle down. Bringing another person into the bedroom is only asking for trouble, especially for the man. I know many men that have talked their women into a threesome only to find that the woman they "supposedly love" is now carying on an afrair with the woman they brought home for themselves. It's a stupid, stupid idea.
No, woman do not gross out upon viewing other woman. I don't know what it is? Maybe it's all the years of women being used for unatural purposes to excite perverted men and now we are used to the image of other women? Who know's why?
2007-02-22 01:05:35 · answer #3 · answered by corina381 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are generally more relaxed about appreciating the bodies of others in an aesthetic way. But you'll find the same percentage of heterosexual women disinterested in a FFM threesome as you'll find heterosexual males disinterested in a MMF threesome. It has nothing to do with finding or not finding "grossness", personal preference can have no relation to vague aesthetic appreciation.
In easier terms... just because females are more relaxed about appreciating other females, doesn't make us any more likely to want to bring on the threesome.
2007-02-22 00:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jarien 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I appreciate beauty in other women. I even find some women sexually attractive. I would not ever have a threesome because of the problems it would bring. I know people who have done this and ruined their relationship. I think sometimes the fantasy is enough.
2007-02-22 00:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gross, no. But most will not be open to it. Women view it differently... Most see it as a fidelity issue, and never trust their husband again.
Strangely enough, those I have known who agreed to it because they were curious, tended to find they were curious for a reason, and left their husbands for another woman.
2007-02-22 01:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the woman. That can't just be a standard statement to cover all women. Some women find it gross, some find it a turn on.
2007-02-22 00:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I answered your previous question too. In answering this one, I will say that I too would find it gross to have another woman in bed with my husband and I. Making love is a special time that should be only between two lovers.
2007-02-22 00:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is every man's fantasy to have two women at the same time. However, it is every woman's fantasy to have a loving, faithful husband that will love only us and never look at another woman, ever.
So, the answer is no. Keep it in your pants, honey. She may be pretty, but we have no interest in having intimate relations with her.
For you to even suggest such a thing is very selfish and inconsiderate of our feelings as someone you supposedly love.
2007-02-22 00:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think I would, if I were married, if only for a fantasy.
I don't think I could ever stand to see my husband with another woman though.
I think women are beautiful, delicate, and all of that.
2007-02-22 00:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by white.sale 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋