well heres whats up. this guy is hitting on me and like my best friends boyfriend is all upset about it. im not really sure why. so like my only conclusion is that he has a thing for me. because he talks to me all the time. like even when my best friend isnt around. yeah were friends and all...but thats no reason to talk to me all the time. my best friend think he likes me to. cuz when they broke up for the 1st time, he started hitting on me. and it felt really weird. and i think the only reason that he's with my best friend is so that he can try to get to me...even tho im engaged and probaly gunna get married this year.
please someone tell me if you think he likes me as well. and what i should do to have him stop. cuz its makin my best friend mad and jealous. but i really cant help it that he likes me. and one more thing...she told me that he talks about me alot to her. that isnt normal to do with your girlfriend.
2007-02-22 00:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
alrighty! ok here i am not jealous! its just making me really really sad ok! and i love him and i dont care! but it still effects me! not gonna leave him cuz this...
2007-02-22 04:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang on, so you are engaged and going to get married and he knows this and some guy is hitting on you right in front of him ??? I'd be upset too. Are you sure your not sending out the wrong signals, if men are hitting on you all the time ?
He does sound over-possesive though. Some men see all the women around them as their girls, whether they are involved with them or not. No, it's not normal to talk about you to his girlfriend.But it worries me when people say lines like "but i really cant help it that he likes me" . Somethings not right. Maybe you like the attention. Maybe he is a sleaze. Let the voters decide.
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2007-02-22 00:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by =42 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend what you are suspecting. Explain to her how much your friendship means to you and that you do not want to see her get hurt by this guy. Then, tell your fiance how much you love him and keep your distance from this other guy. Do not put yourself in the company of this girl's boyfriend at all. That just adds fuel to the fire. If your friend is your friend, she will take your advice. If your fiance is in love with you and you love him that will work out fine and the other guy will disapear eventually. You will find out a lot about the people who you share your life with throughout this and also learn something about yourself. Just ignore the jerky guy and hopefully he will go away.
2007-02-22 00:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he likes you . He only talks to her about you cause he doesn't respect her . He is probably is still with her to get close to you . You should tell him to get a life and grow up . Tell him that is your best friend and you wouldn't do any thing to mess that up I hope . Say to your friend that if he respects you like that why do you stay with him . He is bad news and I hope you don't ever think of being with him . One if she stays with him maybe you shouldn't be around when their together . GOOD LUCK !!!!! DON'T do your friend wrong and tell this creep to chill cause hes not your type even if he is . Friends will be there longer then men .
2007-02-22 00:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Me777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 05:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah her boyfriend likes you so what you need to do is make sure that she knows you don't want him, and to try to stay away from him. tell him that he goes with your friend and you don't feel right around him. also make sure that he understands you. you can talk but talking all the time is not a good sign. it might end your friendship with your bf. and have your bf tell her boyfriend not to talk about you all the time and change the subject.
2007-02-22 00:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by pinkie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just act stand offish to him. Maybe he will get the point. It really is not worth losing a true best friend over it. It sounds like your friend can do better for herself.
2007-02-22 00:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend you like need to like get over yourself and think that maybe he doesn't want you with this guy because he knows he isn't right for you. And like did you ever like think that maybe he was just being nice to you and all that so you would like say good things about him to your like bestfriend. Just remember...don't ditch a friend for a guy...its like not worth it!! LoL!!
2007-02-22 00:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1- it sounds like he does like you
2- talk to him and remind him he's dating your best friend and you are engaged and not interested
3- talk to you best friend and make her think about:: why is he hitting on my best friend? Does he really like me? Or is he using me to get to her?
You can't help who likes you. If she should be mad at anyone, it should be her boyfriend.
Hope this helps. =]
2007-02-22 00:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by KnottyJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first ask him if he has a thing for u. we know that answer is yes but when he says it tell him that it cant work because u and his gfriend is real close and yr not interested in him so stay the hell away from u !
2007-02-22 00:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's in love with you, you probably know it too in your heart, but if you going to get married try not to be to friendly with that guy, so he wouldn't have hopes, that's of course if you in love with your fiance, well you know, be wise, try not to get into twisted situation...
2007-02-22 00:27:34 · answer #11 · answered by happydial 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋