how do you know when your husbands cheating on you?

Answer 1

Seven common signs of cheating:

1. The most common warning is when a partner tells you something is amiss and you don't believe it. He or she may say, 'This marriage isn't working,' or 'I am not happy.'
2. Sudden change -- or interest -- in appearance.
3. If your partner says, 'You need to see a psychiatrist,' 'You need help,' 'Get a job,' 'Lose weight,' or 'Go to the gym,' and is constantly critical, it's all part of the same theme -- which is that there is something wrong with you. Unconsciously, they are setting it up to say their partner was nuts and wouldn't even go for help. Another tip-off is when he or she starts picking fights about something you are good at, so you fight back and then he or she calls you argumentative.
4. Gives you guilt gifts.
5. If you get the cold shoulder at your spouse's company holiday party where everyone used to be friendly, it's a sign that his colleagues either know about the affair and figure you are on the way out, so why be nice? Or your partner has been making critical comments about you so they think you are no good.
6. When a partner is sneaking around a bit, it's a sign. Maybe he or she takes secret cell phone calls on the porch instead of using the phone by the bed, or maybe he is out on weeknights whereas he used to be home watching television. If you see that a person is not around that much and is gone on different nights, something may be up.
7. Sometimes people with a background of these types of things may be more likely to repeat them. There are exceptions and people can change patterns in their life, but if we are talking about red flags, history is a red flag.

Answer 2

1. Something doesn't feel right that you can't put a finger on.
2. Change in behavior patterns.
3. Secrets or keeping things from you.
4. Not communicating well.
5. Distancing himself from you.
6. Lack of interest in sex with you.
7. Unexplained absences.
8. Forgetting important things that you have told him.
9. Cell phone issues. On his cell phone constantly and leaving the room or going outside to take a call. Definately hiding something from you.
10. Suspicious charges on your credit card.
11. Acts defensive when you ask questions. Remember, and innocent person doesn't mind being interrogated. If a person has nothing to hide, then, questions should never bother them.
12. Out of town trips that they won't include you in on.
13. Hang up phone calls when you answer the phone.
14. Inconsistencies in their stories. A woman has a memory like an elephant, and if the story keeps changing, then, that's a red flag warning.
**What you should do is hire an investigator to seek the truth into what is going on.** Your life is worth knowing the truth. You are important.
Remember that.

Answer 3

1. He is cold towards you.
2. He does not initiate sex anymore.
3. He does not communicate with you about his work, hobbies, friends as much as before.
4. Everytime the cell phone rings, he looks "scared" and take the calls in another room.
5. His cell phone is on silent or vibrating mode.
6. He takes more care of his appearance.
7. More outstation trips or late nights with the guys.
8. He will get the wife whatever he wishes - guilt feeling
9. Switch off the computer when wife walks by.
10. When you questioned him, he denied it and even gets mad at you....guilt feeling again.
11, Delete all messages on his cell phones.

My husband was having all those tell tale signs when he was cheating. My instincts was damn accurate. Trust a woman's instincts anytime.

Answer 4

Always trust your instinct. Also, men tend to not be so bright when it comes to these matters. If he changes his normal behavior too much and something just doesn't seem right, try to rule out every other possible factor logically and if you still feel as if he's cheating then he probably is. Everything done in the dark will come to the light. Just make sure to brace yourself ad keep it in the back of your mind if you dont have any concrete evidence.

Answer 5

This guy was on his deathbed and confessed to his wife that he had been having an affair with her sister.
"Shhh, honey", says the wife "Just be calm while the poison does it's job"

This woman catches her husband redhanded with her best friend. She shoots and kills the woman.
"Honey", says the husband, "you should stop doing that - one of these days you won't have any more friends left".

Just these few lines to cheer you up.

Discovering infidelity in a marraige is devastating, I know. If your husband is cheating, it will come to light sooner or later. Only you can work it out and make decisions concerning your future. Good luck and best wishes to you.

Answer 6

Theres many ways to define if hes cheating on you...

wearing different clothes, buying new clothes, his actions in bed, buying you flowers, his avoidence of you, his late nights at work, his mobile been kept out of your reach, a defensive attitude, an overly unusual pleasent attitude where hes constantly sucking up..

Theres many ways to define if he is.. dont get obsessed as it could just be your mind playing tricks on you, watch him closely however, and see what actions he makes that seem out of place ..

When you start getting over suspicious just sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel, see his reaction and ask him, ask him if he still feels the spark, is he bored, has he got someone else.

Sometimes they may fancy someone else and be modelling you on another person and this makes you feel under pressure..

Watch, wait and listen and with patience all will come to you..

b x

Answer 7

He starts to act a bit different, comes home at different hours than he used to, works alot more and tells you it's all your imagination if you say anything about it. Also, if you and your husband were really close, you should be able to tell when you sleep together, or when he looks at you to give an explanation. Look at his eyes when he tells you where he's been. The eyes rarely lie. If he is acting different, something is going on behind your back.

Answer 8

When he cannot account his time, when he either starts having more sex with you in different positions etc, or stops altogether. He buys new aftershave and starts looking after his appearance more, starts showering a lot more than normal. Or hides his phone deliberately and takes secret phone calls. A whole host of stuff can happen but it is mainly down to instinct.

Answer 9

the only real way is catching him red handed.
If it's hearsay is it accurate or gossip?
Some people believe that there may be certain tell tale signs such as: taking a more active interest in his appearance, always being late home, unexplained phone calls or texts, hiding his mobile,lippy on his shirt, scratches on his back, lack of interest displayed to you and sex, smelling of perfume. being out alot.
You need to be sure. Intuition may not always be right.
Is your self-esteem low at mo? Are you imagining this?
I think you shoul perhaos keep a closer eye on him or try speaking to him.

Answer 10

when he leaves at strange hours and doesnt come back till really late, and if he makes up lame reasons for not being home. and also if theres like no money left in your account. im sorry that your husband might be cheating on you. that really has to suck.