why should i trim and control my feelings?
why shouldnt i stay a child and get excited about everything?
why should i stop being emotional and silly?
why they keep telling me im not grown?!!
im just tired..should i grow up like they say and become a wise, real woman as the soceity likes?!
2007-02-22 00:18:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
because we don`t live in an ideal world. If we would live in a society governed by feelings we should follow our heart, but today the society is based on interests and challenge and competition, that`s why we have to be so rational!
Good luck!
2007-02-22 00:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Vlado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not kill your feelings when you want to be wise... A wise man said that your emotions are your fuel to your passion...
You don't trim your feelings... you acknowledge them and process them and see what is really wrong and see what you can do...
You should stay as a child... childlike not childish... excitement keeps you alive and interested in things... Jesus said, "You will never enter the kingdom of God unless you are a child as these..." (I hope I'm quoted it correctly...)
You do not need to stop being emotional and silly you can do that sometimes, but not all the time... it requires timing...;-)
They think that way because they themselves haven't grown up and think they have, but really not...
You will become a woman if you have dignity, respect, consideration, the grace and courage to do what is right... and will help the world become rich because of you... ;-)
Hope that helps...;-)
2007-02-22 02:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Killing" your feelings will not make you wise. Wisdom comes from understanding your feelings and directing them into pursuits that help you achieve your goals in life. Please don't feel compelled to please others by acting like them. Each person is a unique individual and should offer that uniqueness to others while allowing others to be unique also. Emotions are a part of life, and they have a reason for being there. Cultivate the emotions of caring, compassion, and love. They will be a powerful force in your life. BTW I cry when I feel like it.
2007-02-22 01:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lekatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life as much as you can being who you are. There are some limits where you have to think of others feelings. But there is nothing wrong with being 'childish' and having fun :]
2007-02-22 00:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Emmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
controlling yourself is a good thing...
if you don't kill the child who is in your heart,you get excited and be happy...
you can be a woman but it doesn't mean that you are wise...
i think,no one thinks that you're silly.it is just your own opinion...
trust yourself ;)
2007-02-22 03:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who u are everyone makes mistakes and eberyone should learn from them sometimes its those that make u the person u r. I think u have to b silly and immature from time to time to survive.
listen to the song crazy by seal
2007-02-22 01:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Edel F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know something...Society sucs! it's all about who's the best but noone is relly enjoing the rel life....Take Euripide for example he did what ever he liked even things that other think that were outrageus..but who cares .... live you're live tghe way you want YOU decide don't you never let the society kill your ways ....be yourself
mosty of all love and do what you want
2007-02-22 05:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by froggiebau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise people never kill their feelings. But they think first. You should be guided by your heart, but not dragged...
2007-02-22 00:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by zuska m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
controlling your feelings does not make you wise.
perhaps what is being said to you is that you are allowing your emotions guide you? rather than logical consideration.
regardless, just be yourself.
2007-02-22 00:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because crushing ones spirit is part of adulthood. Yea!
2007-02-22 07:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋