2007-02-22 00:18:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think some make a choice and I think some may be 'born that way'. I knew I was heterosexual when I was 4 and had a crush on the little girl down the street. She had a crush on me also.
Now, she is gay.
I think people are naive to believe all gays are born gay or that all gays make the choice. Like everything else in life, there is no clear cut line.
2007-02-22 00:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they can't understand what they haven't experienced. Although not everyone is like this. Usually it's just the people who have little understanding that there is OTHER lifestyles and beliefs out there who can't understand this. These are usually the people who have lived in fear of things they can't understand. Due to religion, parental brainwashing, etc.. Either that or they're too afraid/ashamed that they might have those tendencies themselves and feel the need to lash out at others because of it.
2007-02-22 08:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mystery Lady H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance.
2007-02-22 08:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kedar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance.
2007-02-22 08:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some cases, they do. Sometimes they give up on the opposite sex and are hurt so much by them that they can't help but to turn to the same sex. I really don't think it's their fault, because broken hearts can make us do things that we don't want to.
2007-02-22 08:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A word to be meaningful must mean one thing. Is "gay" a tendency, or is it a lifestyle? (a series of actions) All of us have weaknesses, tendencies to do things that YHVH has condemned. It is when we choose to do those things in spite of warnings, and directions to the contrary that we displease Him. It is normal to feel affection for someone of the same sex. It is perversion to express that affection sexually. The Almighty gave men a great gift in love sex and marriage. If you take it apart, you destroy it!
2007-02-22 08:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because they don't understand and are ignorant! It is rather the same as understanding any sexual preference that is hard-wired in to a persons brain and body.
2007-02-22 08:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They haven't taken the time to research about all of the evidence that it's not a choice and it's genetic.
2007-02-22 09:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it was down to lack of brain cells, you can only use ignorace as an excuse so many times.
2007-02-22 08:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they don't know any better. The best answer back to those type of people is to ask them why they chose to be straight.
2007-02-22 08:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Brent W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋