my boyfriend really loves me and i love him but my parents hate him and they want him to stay away from me but i love him and i think he is perfect for me but i don't know what to do! can you help me?
2007-02-22 00:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by sleeping beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to your parents and find out why they dislike him so much. They may have legitimate reasons for it, or they may have misconceptions about him that getting to know him better can clear up. Love is blind, so you will miss things, or no one could be good enough for you, either way, communication is the only way to resolve this.
2007-02-22 00:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleeping Beauty; This is ALL perfectly normal: it is probably HOW your Grand-parents were first meeting.
Plan your ellopement. (It WILL take quite a bit OF planning,
AND putting into practice -without anyone being sacked from their job,
'coz they are "in Bed"/missing? hiding, etc).
Be ready to STARE THEM DOWN.! It IS normal; and, later
-after a baby is born- EVERYbody will admire the strength-of conviction you & your Man,
showed -under great pressure: unjust pressure
(The pressure of rellies, will quickly pass, you will both find.
Your parents are just scared that, now ..YOU are a woman)! Do it: you'll not regret for more than a week, anyway -'coz the Ellopers, WIN:
if they have their income all worked-out, -and keep it flowing..
-to YOU, & YOUR Man. (Leave the "little-Girl" life behind, now)!
2007-02-22 00:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, but sometimes listening to your parents just won't do any harm... Maybe they saw something wrong with your current boyfriend (which in -love people always try to deny and pretends to be blind out of too much "love") I'm sure your parents love you so much and they care for you a lot that is why they are running against your direction, and please don't give me the reason that "if they love, why can't they understand that he makes me happy and i love him". Think girl friend, if they don't care for you they won't waste their time running against your will and why can't they just grab any kid in town and tell them to leave their boyfriend (DDAAA... as if they care) they do such things because they love you, and they want to protect you and see you happily in the arms of someone worth your love and care. Trust me, they know more than we do...
2007-02-22 00:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty Pink* 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can not help you because I do not know how your parents will react if you date with him .Also I don't know your age and education status . If you have your own money then you have freedom to decide .
2007-02-22 00:25:26 · answer #4 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know the whole story but maybe just maybe your parents see something in him that you refuse to see. your parents have been where you are dating. They are just trying to protect you from getting hurt.
2007-02-22 00:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by momseekinganswers 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋