my husband does not work as he just got his working papers because he is from another country. Anyway he always takes money from my account he claims are for bills but come bill time he doesn't have the money. H e says he can't trust me to hold the money even though i wouldn't spend it the way he does what should i do?
2007-02-21 23:40:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cut off his access to your account...what is wrong with you.....
2007-02-21 23:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd take away his access to your account. If he's spending bill money, you are going to end up in trouble, not him. Tell him that when he starts working he can spend his money the way he sees fit, but your money is there to pay for your needs and your bills. Get this straightened out soon before you end up in the poor house!
2007-02-22 08:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a job and open up another account and keep his name off from it.Pay the bills from the new account that you open and who is he to tell you he don't trust you i would open a can of whoop a** on him for saying that and spending the money he took out to pay bills that he never did
2007-02-22 08:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your account and his name isn't on it then take away his right to use it. Or if you mad eit a joint account then get a new account in your name and transfer the money into the new account and give him an allowence to spend until he gets work.
2007-02-22 08:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up an account that he cannot have access to and don't ever give him so much as a penny. If he don't like it, he can get a job and pay for his own way back to where he came from.
2007-02-22 07:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not allow him to control the money if he has shown he cannot be trusted to pay the bills. he is the one who cannot be trusted with the money. and it only gets worse as time goes on. confront him, about the facts u can see and if he refuses to be more financially honest and contribute dump him now.
2007-02-22 08:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting this bozo control you. Open another account in your name, and pay the bills yourself. If he doesn't get a job soon, boot his butt back where he came from.
2007-02-22 07:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Transfer the money to another personal account which he can't withdraw from.
2007-02-22 10:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems dont like u,but your $.
2007-02-22 07:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by hey mrDJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋