2007-02-21 23:40:27 · 7 answers · asked by ajay mehra 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I use something called The Tone Scale. With use of this you can know how a person will act and react to different situations in life.
I found this tool excellent to know how to deal with customers effectively, to choose my seniors and to know who to trust.
There is a booklet called Tone Scale by L. Ron Hubbard. Get and and try the exercises at the back of the book.
2007-02-21 23:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by michaeljripley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
as a sociologist I see no difference between good and bad. only those things which are socially accepted are good and those are not accepted are bad or evil.
the culture, customs, beliefs, norms, traditions etc., are all the agencies of social control. and as an individual is part and parcel of the society, he gains his personality largely from the society and to some extent to his genealogical inheritance.
therefore, before considering a man to be good or bad, it is worth
to note the environmental conditions in which he is thriving.
and his past, present conditions to judge his activities.
further, no man is either good or bad all the way. the circumstances in which he was put into made him to bend towards good or bad. obviously which is harmless, worthy, and gainful to him.
In a scientific way that helps us to know whom to trust, the following are few methods as ready made tools: 1) eyes are powerful instruments which will convey the true meaning of the words and gestures. therefore keep an eye contact with the other person
2) observe the body language. words tell something while body speaks in a different way.
3)if through written communication, search for words indicating loyalty, faith, trust, belief. if they are stressed, we can trust him but not completely.
4) take into consideration your intuition.
2007-02-22 08:58:14 · answer #2 · answered by latha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Friendship and trust can/should be developed over time. Start out with small issues and gradually increase your acquaintance/trust/opinion. Even after 20 years you may find issues that you do not agree with in other people (to diminish you opinion) Also, during that 20 years, people change and you change so the issue of "good" may alter.
2007-02-22 08:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practically speakin in 2days world v can seldom trust a person...to find a good n trustable person is lik searchin 4 water in a desert....but yes der r xeptions...der is no fixed method 2 judge ppl...but close observation can help...but dis is not possible in evry case...so u jus hav to b careful enough not 2 trust n depend on da prson to such n xtent wch can harm u later....in ne way...
2007-02-22 07:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by sneha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is listen to your own instincts. Ask a lot of questions. Be polite but don't get too close too quick. In a lifetime there are few people that one can trust. Very few.
2007-02-22 07:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
world is a mirror. are you good? then why worry. if you are good, then everyone is good. there is no one bad. if you recognise yourself as good then there is no necessity of this question. plz ask the question to your inner soul. there u can find the answer.
2007-02-22 07:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by maharajan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you can tried to put your stuff in him/her, then look it if he/she can look after your stuff and check it back after several days the stuff, look it if they are in good condition or not.
i know sounds is naive but this just good way if you want to make quick observation
2007-02-22 07:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋