2007-02-21 23:25:08 · 9 answers · asked by PIRINOLA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After a split it is always better for everyone involved if the child sees that their parents can still talk and participate in the child's life. With your new person being able to participate in their raising it makes it all the better. Kids can't understand adult fighting and would be even better at developing into a healthy adult when they grew up in a warm loving home with mom happy with step dad and everyone getting along with biological dad. I say try to stay friends but let him know the line that you have between you. That the marriage is over and he has no control on your life anymore but does have input into raising his child as long as it's reasonable toward a healthy upbringing! Stay friends but let him know his boundaries.
2007-02-21 23:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if at all possible you should always try to be friends with your childs other parent. It will make it easier for everyone in the future. Esp. your kid. It will probably only work as long as both people can draw the line at friendship if it's obvious a relationship won't work between the two of you.
2007-02-22 07:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by CuriousOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay... in fact, what could be better for all concerned than to have a healthy and friendly relationship with ALL of the people in your life.
No matter how you slice the pie, an ex-spouse in not and ex-parent. Do what's best for everyone's happiness, well-being and safety and you won't go wrong.
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2007-02-22 07:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely YES, that is the way it should be; child whose parents are still friends are in a win-win situation
2007-02-22 07:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if this type of relationship is able to develop in a healthy manner it could be a very big plus. God bless****
2007-02-22 07:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have children together. Your both adults, and have a history together.
2007-02-22 08:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and if others cannot accept and understand that, then they have a problem.
2007-02-22 07:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course....you share a child....
2007-02-22 07:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure is
2007-02-22 07:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋