We're not talking about cheating. We're talking about flirting when your spouse wasn't there.
2007-02-21 23:18:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you show NO respect for your husband nor the sanctity of the marriage by acting flirty with or without the husbands knowledge or approval.
2007-02-21 23:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully this question isn't a generalization as it goes both ways. Men and women both flirt and the reason behind it, is mostly due to self esteem. Just because you flirt with someone else, doesn't mean that you don't respect the person you are with. It means you have natural needs to see if you can attract the opposite sex.
2007-02-22 07:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of flirting are you talking about? Being out going and friendly is one thing, but, if you are putting sexual signals out there to someone else and insinuating that you are looking for some side action, then, you are a very insecure person with an inferiority complex. You need to ask yourself why you feel the need to do this...for the thrill, or because you are bored in your relationship? If that's the case, then, do what you need to do to bring you and your partner closer. And, if things need to be spiced up, then, do that instead. You are making yourself look very sleazy, and certainly not the kind of person of worth and value. Care alot about yourself and how you want others to perceive you. In the long run, you will feel better about yourself, and be the master of your relationship.
2007-02-22 07:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men do it just the same, even when their partner is around! I've seen it a million times and alot of men have no respect for women what so ever. We're both as bad as each other. I hate flirting, it's totally disrespectful.
2007-02-22 07:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all i respect and love my husband VERY much and I for one do not flirt around behind his back and never would even think of doing so. This is just wrong. I let everyone know that I am very happily married and to leave me alone and i act married when my husband is with or not with me out in public.
2007-02-22 08:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my eyes, that's completely disrespectful. You can look but you can't touch - that's what I say. Flirting is not something I would see as acceptable in the case of being married. My soon to be mother in law always says that you're not dead yet, so looking at someone and claiming that they're nice looking is OK, but acting on it is rude and uncalled for.
2007-02-22 07:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by absolut_nixter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what type of flirting, and it depends on what you consider to be flirting. Flirting lightly is harmless, if you flirt alittle stronger it becomes dangerous. So it all depends. If the woman is constantly looking for attention from all men,,not too good, but if its innocent and light then its harmless.
2007-02-22 07:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you class as flirting and i dont think you would respect your partner if you were doing it behind his/her back and on purpose.
2007-02-22 07:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by emesumau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was alway told flirting is healthy, keep the mind and body young, long as you flirt, dont touch i see nothing wrong, you get mad when she flirts, but how about that cuittie that keep smiling at you, same thing ?
2007-02-22 07:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think u would have no respect or love for your husband if u did this. it is deceitful and underhanded, and not at all being loyal. just plain wrong, really shows how u truly feel about the husband.
2007-02-22 07:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋