I've known him for nearly 12 years and just found out a week ago that he was gay, and now that he's told me, he acts totally wierd around me. How can i let him know that him being gay doesn't make any difference to me whatsoever?? I couldn't tell he was before, and can't now even if i look for it in him... plz help!!
2007-02-21 23:07:37 · 5 answers · asked by lynn 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have told him what i feel and he and his boyfriend even asked me to lunch one day and i thought everything went so good and it was fun... but he still seems so uncomfortable around me?
2007-02-21 23:21:30 · update #1
Just be the friend you always were. What he has told you is some pretty powerful stuff that he has kept hidden from the world for a long time. Let him come to terms and relax with that.
2007-02-21 23:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you think its cool he's gay (or that you're fine with him being gay), I hope that you will act the same around me as you always do, because I know you are the same person.
Just say that to him. If your his friend, you should be able to
2007-02-22 09:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your acceptance of who he is. HE would be grateful for that. When you say this, look on his eyes so that he can feel you sincerity. For sure, he would cry out of joy.
2007-02-22 07:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by Makisig 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
time is the key...just give it time to get back to normal
2007-02-22 07:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by crazybubbleblower 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him how u feel SIMPLE
2007-02-22 07:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Chequinah C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋