Are you waiting for your married lover to leave or are you happy with way things are?
2007-02-21 22:36:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK I have been "The Other Woman" and it's hard as hell. You don't get holidays, you know he sleeps in the same bed with her, but there is nothing you can do either accept the situation as it is or in my case make him choose. He left her, he has custody of all 4 children and during the process "we" got lost.
He and I are still very close friends, I've met most of his family, but I don't see us ever living together again (we did for a few months during the divorce)
I don't suggest anyone get into a relationship like this, although it does have its benefits. It's exciting, the vacations together are more special because of the limited time, the sex is beyond anything you'll ever have, if you pick the right one.
Well have to jump in the shower, he'll be here in less then an hour. Oh this start in Feb. 2001, lol.
Go ahead crucify me, but bring your own hammer and nails please.
No apoligies here, I helped a good man get out of a bad relationship, his kids are fine and happier then they were while they were married, for those long 23 yrs.
Yes they do leave if it's right. Have fun with this one.
2007-02-22 02:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by sheermadness40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am not the other woman, i was the wife, and no i do not think they are happy, and i do think they will stop at nothing to get what they are after. i do not think they will be happy until they get their lover away from his wife that is their agenda. i do think there are some that wait patiently, but for the most part, i think they pursue, promise, do all they can to convince him to leave. usually they find success because the poor wife is angry and hurt, and her ego won't allow her to work it out or be nice to her husband once he has cheated.
2007-02-22 06:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2nd question along these lines i've answered today & i'll tell u the same: if easy women did not give out to a married man, somebody who has commited themselves to his wife a children, then men might try a little harder to make their marriage happy again by talking to his wife instead of finding an easy shag with the 1st tart that falls for the "my wife doesn't understand me" line or the " i can't remeber the last time i slept with my wife" crap.
Also if you are happy being 2nd, 3rd or 4th best then i'd say u have no respect for your self, and if u don't respect yrself why should anybody else.
2007-02-22 06:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by K W 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am not really into marriage wrecking so I tend to stay away from the 'taken' pile as I would hate someone to do it to me if I were married!
2007-02-22 06:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by The Weird One! 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Happily married is just a inept phrase which doesnt have any truth in reality
2007-02-22 07:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Shiv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I'm not the other woman.I'm not dating a married man. I agree with dianesomeone.
2007-02-22 06:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was both - another woman when i was 20 and now "the wife" when i am 27, seing both **** happen, and i must say its harder to be "the other woman" , its hell on earth, if you hear he is married, run, run and hide, its fucked up.
Good luck
2007-02-22 16:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rita B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE WOULD NEVER LEAVE HIS WIFE ! though it happens but very very rare !
Most of the time, the relationship with the "other woman" is sexual and temporary.
2007-02-22 07:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Xenia 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
.There is no shorted of singles guys,so I don't score on a married man.
2007-02-22 11:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. I sleep well at night and i dont have stds.
2007-02-24 21:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋