2007-02-21 22:18:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All material matters hinge on the dollar bill---and----
A lot of relationships are based far more within the material realm than most would care to admit !
Also, viewpoints about finances vary widely person to person--- the individual in a relationship can see far more importance in certain "things" than the other and, each person's priorities can be set at major opposing positions !
People have a tendency to gauge their own "comfort zones" by the measure of financial security they feel and within that zone is the aforementioned view of priorities-----So, when the other person creates a continuing barrier to the fulfillment of these needs--- the discomfort or the outright hassle and turmoil created BY that will eat away at the relationship itself to the point of finals that leave the two Gratefully giving up on the union for some sense of their own personal recoup of that very personal "comfort zone" of material security !!!
2007-02-21 22:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because the relationship has weak foundation and the first strom is able to uproot it. If love is strong and the relationship is sure, financial matters should not break up the relationship. Money can buy a few comforts and luxuries, but not love, friendship and other sweeter things of life. If real love exists, it cannot break the relationship. Maybe u have to face a few hardships, but u are both in the same boat, and together u can face the problems and hardships.
2007-02-21 22:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only financial matters break up relationship. When relationship is not strong enough, anything can break the relationship up.
2007-02-21 22:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some people only care about money they have lost the real meaning of a relationships. they are about nurturing and caring about each other and when it comes down to it love is more important than money sure you need it to pay bills . so compromise do without unecessary things . just buy what you absolutely need. cherish and treasure each other life is short .and that is that.
2007-02-21 22:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by freeflow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is a very stressful thing, It contols everything that we do.
Sometimes it always seems like the other person is a spender, and doesn't give thought to buying things really needed, or cooking at home instead of going out.
It's like the devil
2007-02-21 22:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause we now live in a material society where people care more about money than the person they want to share their lives with. Money comes and goes but love is forever.
2007-02-21 22:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
often keeping the two of you from going out together to have fun or if your living together married or not and one is struggling while the other is just doing the bare minimum to work just to say she/he has a job it can piss you off. Then when you say something like get a job, get a better job, or get more hours they take it as a "your a lazy bum" and get defensive... sparks fly
2007-02-21 22:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is all anybody cares about anymore....i would rather live on the street with my boyfriend and have no money and be just as happy as ever instead of being rich and living in a huge *** house where all we did was fight all the time....PRIORITIES people---get it together and get your **** in order!
2007-02-21 22:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because money is the root of all evil.
2007-02-21 22:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in this situation rite now...n let me tell u ....money can make a marriage break up...trust me...u need money for everything now.
2007-02-21 22:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by rozy al bakish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋