i have been with my partner for almost 7 years now tonight i found out that she has been lying to me sorry not telling me things i don't need to know as she puts it i care for her more then life itself on top of that we have 2 kids and i have just given up drugs to save our relation ship which right at this point i relly want to go out an get stoned out of my mind. What should i do about my so called partner????
some one please help me
2007-02-21 22:11:26 · 8 answers · asked by Jamz s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you didn't say what sort of "truths" she hid from you, or what lies she told to spare you the trouble or pain.
no lie is worth getting stoned for.
no truth is more worthy of keeping clean than the two kids you treasure and the love and relationship you value more than life itself.
be strong. you won't regret it. and neither will she. the kids lean on both of you.
2007-02-21 22:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by saberlingo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love your partner u should learn to trust her.
Do not feel that she is lying to u, it is too strong an allegation. Maybe she is hiding something from u, maybe for your good. Some girls are like that, they hide things for no reason, and play such harmless games. Take it in the right spirit or u maybe breaking a perfectly made relationship.
2007-02-22 06:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first if you already have two kids you should not be worried about going out and getting stoned anymore to begin with and it sounds like you should have given it up a long time ago....it depends what kinds of things she didn't tell you.....if she didn't tell you she was sleepin with someone else or she didn't tell you she isn't in love with you anymore or somethin like that then you have a major issue but if its something little or even somewhat insignificant, ask yourself if it's really worth giving up your marriage for....i mean you got married because you loved each other, dont seperate because of something stupid that would have been easier to just let go and forget about...
2007-02-22 06:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sometimes lying to a drug addicted person is for there own good, you forgot to tell us what she lyed about, could be men to dinner to whats on for tonight? deal with it. 7 years, 2 kids means she is staying, get over it
2007-02-22 06:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang on in their....don't give into temptation.
Enjoy a nice cuppa breath deeply and think about what you want out of life...than tomorrow go for it believe and you will make it.
It's a long road...to recovery and relationships take work but children love their parents and you have a responsibility to be the best person you can for them....and you deserve to be the best you can be for yourself....
2007-02-22 06:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't get stoned she is not worth giving up your sobriety for. Keep thinking of your two children and stay sober for them. You both need to sit down and talk about this problem. Good luck
2007-02-22 06:24:30 · answer #6 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go and get stoned.
it depends on what secrets shes been keeping. if she has stuck with you though your detox from drugs she can't be that bad can she?
2007-02-22 06:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by missyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't go get stoned and do damage to yourself just because you were lied to.........maybe she was just trying to protect you while you were working on giving up drugs....put everything in perspective...
2007-02-22 06:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋