I have friends here and there but somehow I feel like I just don't fit in anywhere. I mostly spend break by myself and I feel miserable. I have always been lousy at making friends! Has anyone ever felt like this before? Please advice me?!
2007-02-21 21:49:07 · 7 answers · asked by illlhsm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes! I am the champion at this unfortunately.
I have realised lately that I need to make more effort to make friends, not be so fussy or critical of people and also fear of rejection is a big issue too.
Maybe one or all of those things you have too? All people hurt peoples feelings at some stage of time - even without meaning too. That makes relationships harder too. Fear of being hurt. But just have to forgive and move on if that happens.
We were meant to share life on this planet with others. Relationships are so important to our health. So I hope you can get better at this - just as I hope I continue getting better at it too!
And keep looking for places where you can fit in. What about your favourite sport or hobby. Otherewise local church always is a good place to feel a good sense of belonging.
Best of luck.
xoxoxo
2007-02-21 21:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Nic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same exact way. Its "ok" to be different. Who says we have to conform to some idea of being "normal"? Besides I think "normal" is incredibly boring. Its the differences in life that makes it so exciting. An adventure is an adventure because of the unknown. Normalcy implies some sort of known existence. Be yourself and those who love will always love you.
2007-02-22 05:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to force yourself to be more social. I know it's prob uncomfortable, but join a group or take some community ed classes. The first step is to surrond yourself with people, making friends will follow.
2007-02-22 05:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by megs1bq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I do all the time, you have to find peace in your self, and become your own friend.
you have to concentrate all your time in doing something you love.
It is really hard for me to make a friends, I have many associates, I'll laugh, TALK AND HAVE FUN! but I rarely choose a friend.
2007-02-22 05:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by mercedez m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, lots of people have felt it. friends are there so you can feel "confortable" around them. you have to practice not avoiding people (my biggest problem), and get a conversation started with people that share your interests
2007-02-22 05:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do
it is as if we have friends.........but not best or even good friends
i feel leftout.......
i think only way u can get out of this is after changing school or by passing out
........hope that u ll get a good friend
2007-02-22 06:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by lak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal you are bored of your friends and want more excitment it will come.lol
2007-02-22 05:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋