Seeing a married man??

Question

Is any one seeing a married man??Obviously not married to you but to someone else?How does it make you feel when you think about his poor wife?And do they always promise you they will leave their wifes one day?? x

Answer 1

I'm not sure you could say i'm 'seeing' him as we hardly ever see each other. its a very bizarre relationship. i like him a lot. He has never promised to leave his wife. It's all ridiculous.

Do you think it may be something to do with the name Lisa?!

Answer 2

I'll tell you from the poor wifes angle - cheaters don't just lie to their wife but also to their mistress, they will say whatever they think you want to hear just to get what they want.

They always promise to leave their wife but actually few do.

My ex told his girlfriend that we no longer had a sexual relationship of any kind and were only together for the sake of the kids and that it was a mutual decision (bearing in mind that at this time I did not know about the affair or her existence), how gullable was she and until I found out about the affair we were still extremely intimate on a very regualr basis.

I found out later that she honestly thought we slept in the same bed but that was all!

Cheaters will tell you they have all sorts of relationship problems (some do) but more often than not the only problem is the cheater having the affair.

Take my advice do not get involved with a married man - if he says hes going to leave his wife then wait until he actually does.

There only two people who get hurt (not counting the children) the wife and the mistress.

Answer 3

I was seeing a 34 year old when i was 18 and he had a wife and two kids. At the time i was young and didn't really think about the consequences. She must have known he was seeing someone cos she used to ring when we were together. What put into perspective for me was when i went round to their house when she working to see him. We were kissing and one of his boys walked in and caught us, i knew then that i had end it. I was hurting their mother and it was wrong and i didn't want to split a family. It started off exciting and dangerous but soon wore off and then he took to see his family who knew he was having an affair and then his brother tried it on with me. Enough was enough. Still regret it to this day but they stayed together which helped a little

Answer 4

i was the wife of one of these men having an affair, it hurt me deeply, ruined the marriage and my life for awhile. i know that she did not care about my feelings, only her own. some do leave their wives, but many do not, and in the end the mistress is left with nothing. should never trust a married man, or believe anything he tells u, as there are always two sides to every story. i do believe that what goes around eventually comes around and whatever pain she causes the wife, it will come back to her one day.

Answer 5

Are you a cuckolded wife or the mistress? Or just curious?
Does the mistress always have to be the wrong party? Is there no blame attached to the errant husband in the mind of any answerers here?
I have been neither the wife nor the mistress - but it occurs to me that there must be either a) something wrong in the marriage which has caused the husband to stray; b) something wrong with the husband which has caused him to stray; or c) a man-hunter out to snag something that doesn't belong to her.
Unless you can identify which one belongs to your personal scenario - however painful it might be to admit the truth of the situation - you may just be empathising with the wrong side of the triangle.

Answer 6

yes i used to see a married man...who is 20 yrs older than i am i was young and i tried to resist it so much at the beginning and then he told me that if both of us feel comfortable in each other's company then just leave it as it is...days passed, even moths passed and it grew stronger between us...i know he truly loved me he did not cheat me...he also did not promise to leave his wife although both were unhappy with each other...but they still had 2 kids and some financial issues between them...i still love him till this moment & i haven't been able to love anyone else but him...he tells me the same thing too...but its just not right...we met late, he was another woman's man...and there's a saying that says the worst feeling anyone could ever feel is to miss someone when ur just next to them and u know u can'y have them...love at first was blind but there are consequences and circumstances u could not just ignore

Answer 7

Hi!

I'm not seeing a married man (thank God), but I have had girlfriends who have.

I don't think they even thought about the poor wife!!

Sometimes, the married men did promise to leave their wives, but they NEVER did!!

These girls HAVE to remember, if they did it once (with them), they'll do it again (with someone else).

Hope this helps!

Answer 8

if i knew someone was married i would stay well clear. if he was going to leave her he would have done it before meeting someone else. and if he can do it to his wife then he will do it to a the next victim. poor wife's thank god for descent men.

Answer 9

No they dont always say they will leave their wife. Most of the time they have no intention of leaving, they just want to find a bimbo and use her.

Answer 10

My hus band cheated me to love his girllfriends. When I knew it, I agrred to seperate and looking for my new life. After that, their love fastly decreased based on her complacated and selfish charasteristic. As my husband thinking, he nearly is out of her love if she can not prove her true love with him. If you do like this, you should figure out what you want and how the people around, espeacially his wife and kid hurt. Karma is always right. Remember this. hope this help!

Answer 11

nope am not and will never do that. cos when things come out as they do eventually, everyone will get hurt. i imagine how i would feel if i was the wife. just that alone is enough to make me never think of doin this.