am i over reacting when i catch my husband chatting in this room.How can i make him understand how hurt i feel.I´ve tried telling him and he says it is harmless fun but the thought of him asking "what are you wearing"?,whats your ***** like? feels like a knife has been pounded into me.I am not unatractive and we have (so i thought) a normal relationship and 2 kids.
I was snooping and i saw the email so i emailed the female to ask what had been said.I had reason to check up as it´s not the first time.I can´t ditch the PC as it is my sons´and by doing that won´t make the problem go away.
He only seems to do this when i am at work on his day off.
Please any tips or even instructions on how to block this and similar sites from being viewed.
2007-02-21 21:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by MI5 WANNABE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi, I am a man and I do not do that to my wife because I care for her feelings. One thing you have to make sure to let him know is that you do not like it. He will try to say that it is only a little thing but at that moment you have to show that you really disapprove it. I know that because that is a threshold that he is watching. I know it hurt you because you love him and you have done your best to make your relationship a happy experience. can you take a bold action like when you see that he was chatting, print a page or several copies and disconnect the computer and throw it outside the patio where he can see it when he come back from work. I know he will get mad but he will know that you really, really do not like that. believe me I know, I am a man and I can see thru this.
2007-02-21 21:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by SUAVE38 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 06:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not just fun. It is cheating. He is getting something from someone else. It is a sex addiction and very serious. I have been there, my husband finally got over it, but it was many years and we ended up getting divorced before he was able to recover from it. I still am scared at times, although I honestly don't think he is doing anything anymore.
2016-03-13 09:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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am i over reacting when i catch my husband chatting in this room.How can i make him understand how hurt i feel.I´ve tried telling him and he says it is harmless fun but the thought of him asking "what are you wearing"?,whats your ***** like? feels like a knife has been pounded into me.I...
2015-08-16 14:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some States (US) and now Nations this act in itself is ground for Divorce and you need to come into terms with him and tell him that Divorce is on your mind if his little "game" do not stop at whatever time-lapse you may give him or, simple he needs to stop today!, immediately or he will be seeing your Lawyer for Divorce -no buts about it!. He is the one that has a problem not you and I am sure you will win in Court!.
2007-02-21 21:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by Lubakraine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband does not respect you by doing that. Talk to him openly how it makes you feel. If he cares enough he'll listen and try for you. Do not give in for something you know that it is wrong for your husband to do.
2007-02-21 21:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a pervert and if you don't have him change his ways he will only get worse...been there myself
2007-02-21 21:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could buy a website blocker, search on yahoo free wesite blocker, then click the stop sign one
2007-02-21 21:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Keith C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. is very dirt
2007-02-21 22:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's dirty world
2007-02-21 21:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by haz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋