hi i,m female born 5th october 1967..can anyone out there predict how much more heartache i have to endure..a relationship with a cancer guy ended a few day,s ago and i,m devastated..i really need some love guidance on why i keep getting it wrong..and are things ever going to improve for me..thankyou..
2007-02-21 20:38:46 · 8 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
sorry to hear you are so sad at the moment.
you might get heartache will any sun sign you choose, don't blame the outcome on him being a cancer, maybe it just wasnt meant to be.
its not possible to give an accurate reading without your time and place of birth, but maybe this can help.
Libra is the lover of the Zodiac. She seeks complementary energy - partnership, equilibrium, balance, harmony, and above all, love. Libra takes pleasure in people, words, art and beauty. There are so many joys, wonders and ways of expression. She wants to experience them all! Maybe that is why she is constantly falling in love.
The opposite of Aries, who is on a quest to make her personal mark in the world, Libra is searching for connections with others. She attracts people and collects things because of her great fascination with everything she sees. She may seem acquisitive, or luxury loving, but she is merely fulfilling a deep need to appreciate the earth by gathering it close to herself.
Libra creates balance in her life by making comparisons. She spends a great deal of time weighing out options, opinions and possibilities. Like a judge, she must choose the best, and this is sometimes a challenge. The tendency to vacillate on the part of Libra is her famous, and seemingly endless exercise in discernment, but once she has chosen, she does so with a certainty she will strongly defend. To rush the Libra could result in a half-hearted, and possibly ill-fated decision on her part, thus opening the door to constant uncertainty.
Libra needs to be stimulated both mentally and sensually. She is just as fascinated with communication and debate as with earthly goods and pleasures. Libra wants others to feel comfortable and at ease. She is a charming hostess with impeccable taste and style, and seeks both natural and creative beauty in her surroundings.
When it comes to love, the Libra will be entirely devoted to her chosen one, showering him with all the joys of life she so cherishes. Libra needs companionship above all, and will work hard to make a harmonious partnership.
The Secret Libra
Inside anyone who has strong Libran influences is a person who is terrified of being alone. The fear is usually well controlled so the typical Libra always looks calm, collected, and in charge of any situation.
Good-natured and loving, Libras can also be petulant, and even objectionable, when asked to take orders. Similarly, they are extremely intelligent, yet sometimes gullible; they enjoy talking to people, yet can also be very attentive listeners.
Libra and Love
To Libra, love is all. He or she tends to fall in love with love itself and is eager to share life with the partner. The Libran ideal is a life that is filled with the peaceful, rosy glow of romance. Libra in love will have many of the characteristics listed below.
Behaviour When In Love
The typical Libra:
* is emotionally dependant upon the partner
* is casual and easygoing
* enjoys romantic settings
* will ignore the partner's shortcomings in return for love
* does not want a partner who is overly demonstrative
* glows with love for the whole world
* will do anything to avoid hurting the loved one
* gives the loved one complete attention
Expectations
The typical Libra expects:
* to be supported and cared for
* faithfulness and loyalty
* to be free to get on with his or her work
* a partner to have his or her own separate interests
* to be amused
* to be admired and even exalted
The End of An Affair
If a Libra is rejected, he or she is initially demoralized. However, the Libra quickly takes action to try to redress the balance that has been lost.
Often the Libra will do anything to charm the loved one again, courting the partner as if for the first time.
If the rejection is final, the hurt Libra will disguise the pain he or she feels by searching once more for true love.
Libra and Partner
The person who contemplates becoming the marriage or business partner of a typical Libra must realize that Libra forms partnerships to avoid the terrible sense of loneliness which is always present at the heart of a Libra.
Given this, the person who partners Libra can expect the marriage or the business to be happy and successful. Libra is the zodiac sign of partnerships, and typical Libras cannot imagine life without a relationship. The Libra will work hard and thoughtfully to make the partnership a harmonious balance of two personalities.
Libra with Libra: Harmonious
Libra with Scorpio: Harmonious
Libra with Sagittarius: Harmonious
Libra with Capricorn: Difficult
Libra with Aquarius: Harmonious
Libra with Pisces: Turbulent
Libra with Aries: Difficult
Libra with Taurus: Turbulent
Libra with Gemini: Harmonious
Libra with Cancer: Difficult
Libra with Leo: Harmonious
Libra with Virgo: Harmonious
good luck
2007-02-22 00:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♥gigi♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm sorry about your relationship but, as a fellow Libran (born the day after you actually but in a different year) I have to say, stop staring at the stars for guidance, you have to get out there, it is only YOU who can determine what happens in your life. Everyone gets their heart broken by someone at least once but you have to keep going. You shouldn't choose your partner according to star sign, you could have looked over the perfect guy just because you weren't "compatable".
I'm afraid that's all the guidance I can give. Enjoy life and live it to the fullest. Stars are pretty but that is all; they don't determine where you end up - most horoscopes are things that anyone could predict and are NEVER 100% correct no matter what you hear. If you want things to improve, they will. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-21 20:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We Librans are very good at handing out advice but not so good at following it. However, I hope you will listen to the advice of others.
As a Libran a Cancerian man is not for you. You need someone who is strong of character and who can support you through the tough times. We Librans are somewhat shallow and need someone who has true feelings for us otherswise we can wander off the straight and narrow as we have a great deal of insecurities despite that outward persona of confidence we extrude.
You will find the right person for you and you will find happiness, meantime stop brooding and get out there and meet other folk. And stop day dreaming.
Harsh words from me but you know you can be strong.
PS: I was married to a Cancerian man and the mental torture was unbearable. He was a real mummies boy and should have never married he was so set in his own ways and loved doing things on his own....no good for a Libran we need a partnership.
Nevertheless I am sorry that you are feeling so much heartache at present, but things will get better. Throw yourself into work and enjoy what you do.
All the very best Nettie UK lass.
2007-02-21 21:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am a Libran too 14th October.
I had a lot of heartache with a Leo many years ago.
I have been married happily to a Taurus guy for 25 years and we are still very happy. Both our kids are cancer kids and get on very well together.
I'm not sure whether it makes a huge difference what star sign some one is. I think its more a case of finding someone like-minded who you really bond with and have that 'special' kind of magic.
You will find someone one day when you least expect it. Have faith and don't come across too desperate. There is someone out there for everyone. Take heart....things will improve for you.
Good Luck!
2007-02-21 20:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Pink n Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U only seem to be selfishly thinking about your heartache. Do u know how much heartache u are creating for others. But don't worry, u may hop in and out of some more relationships, flirting and breaking others heart, and in the process, getting a bit of heartache. But u will find the right person and it will be a divine balance, that will bring you a lot of bliss and happiness.
2007-02-21 22:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah Pink and wise Oct 14th babbbyyyy Roger Moore, Ralph Lauren. With a Leo right now for the last 15 yrs hard hard woman. Had a stint with a Taurus OMG she couldnt tell the truth if her life depended on it. The worst. However, in bed Oh my Taurus rocked my world yowzers!!! Leo was crap in bed but busn mind work ethic cant beat her smart as a whip!!!! Talked circles made me dizzy bestest buddies with my Leo not a lover though. Great people Leo's super hard workers OMG they work like nuts all the time and funny... I'm a very confused person as you can see. I love everyone its all about the balance it has to be fair and balance or it drives me crazzzzzyyyyyy.
2007-02-22 06:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a libra too and im having a lot of heartache right now. Maybe thats whats in our stars right now sweety, but listen, you are going to make it, i wont tell you my sad story, but even i know that you will be ok. the thing is we always want more than ok, and you will get it, stay strong you are probably a fantastic incredible human being and if you keep believing this and keep your head held high, you will get all the right kind of heart ache soon - if you know what i mean x x
2007-02-21 20:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by nina c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I was born 19th Oct 19**
The sign of Libra is the scales, for balance.
We are know for our strong sence of right and wrong and sometimes get taken advantage of.
My first husband turned out to be Satan Spawn, but my 2nd. one turned out to be an angel.
I strongly beleive that things balance themselves out in the end.
So don't dwell on the past, look forward to the future with optimism.
Get out and meet new people.
Mr. Right is out there somewhere looking for you.
GO GET HIM!
2007-02-21 20:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Debi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋