He has just called me from work , thought something is wrong and all he wanted was sex.
Didnt say no but what do u do when you are still married to him?
Problem is we are not talking and he said he did not love me any more, and comes home pretty late.
Could it be just about sex or is there still some love.
2007-02-21 20:01:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why buy a cow when you can milk one for free.
2007-02-21 20:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he told you he doesn't love you then there is none. Maybe you are hoping there is but all you are doing is drawing from a well that's run dry. You're nothing more than a sex object who is trapped in a loveless marriage. This is a marriage in name only; no real substance or true feeling from him whatsoever. Just because you still are married to him doesn't entitle him to expect sex from you any more then you have to feel obligated to give in to his demands. Only other thing it could mean is for you two to call it quits. Stop wasting your time and move on.
2007-02-22 04:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no love here. But honestly, why still agree to sleep with him when he has made it clear by word - ''he said he did not love me any more'' and actions - ''Problem is we are not talking''. Somebody who loves you will talk to you and never tell you that he does not love you any more.
He does not want to stay with you. He doesn't respect you but because he is greedy and inconsiderate, he still clings to you so that he can satisfy his libido.
He is just using you as his sex object and the sooner you tell him to get off and better. And yes, sleeping with him meant something and that thing is that you are just good for his sexual needs. He takes you for a prostitute - no feelings of love whatsoever but good for ejaculation. He is defiling your body. Don't be an accessory to that disgusting act!
2007-02-22 04:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue. I am not married, but I would feel a bit insulted if my boyfriend/husband and I were not really speaking and he just called me for sex.
I think if he wants to reconcile, he would actually say that words. This sounds like a booty call to me.
If you need answers, you need to ask the question--to the right person(your husband in this case).
Don't assume anything. It's a setup for disappointment.
2007-02-22 04:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. There's no need to even try finding reasons that he might. Why don't you just forget about him and move on? Sometimes truth is painful, but there's no way else but accept it and let go.
Try love and value yourself more. Don't ever let anybody intimidate you this way again.
2007-02-22 04:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Master M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say your man just wants some free sex nothing more
2007-02-22 04:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by steadyeddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about sex .... why would you sleep with a man who told you he does not love you? Is it just about sex for you?
2007-02-22 04:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dense are you, really???
You are not together, not even talking in fact, he has SPELLED IT OUT to you that he doesn't love you - what about this scenario is it that you don't get?
Yes, it's just about sex. Stop giving it to him. D'uh!
2007-02-22 04:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only you know that answer babe. What is his attitude to you. How does he treat you.
2007-02-22 04:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋