It happened to me a few on bearwww where this guy,I do not care keeps popping up and I said "no, leave me alone" and he came back a few weeks ago, I just had with him and I was mean to him but I wanted him to understand that he's completely unattractive to me. But I want to know how to reject people like him in a nicer way without hurting them or turning them into psychos. I'm just a little tactless.
2007-02-21 19:57:51 · 9 answers · asked by Slaide2 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm not interested. I am married. I am having a herpes flare up. I have AIDS. Get lost. Get out of my sight.------I am a firm believer that I only have to say no once...after that watch out.
2007-02-21 20:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
look maybe your just being to hard on yourself. Try to understand where that person is coming from. It is really hard to tell a person that you love then and when you become so mean it reflects your personality. So by all means talk to them on a private level and make them understand that your not interested in them.
2007-02-22 04:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Deedee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are already in a relationship with another man and you aren't looking, so thank you but no thanks. You have to be direct with him cos he sounds like the type of guy that doesn't take a hint too well.
2007-02-22 09:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, if a simple, 'No, thank you' doesn't work, then you kinda have to hit them upside the head with a board.
If I say 'no' to someone and they still continue to hit on me, it is clear to me that clearer words are necessary.
2007-02-22 04:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by pasdeberet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, sorry i have someone already and i'm purely polygamous and added I'm just kidding and walk away.
2007-02-22 04:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them "No thanks, you're not my type." that usually works with most people. If they still bug you, you can get tactless.
2007-02-22 04:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Syck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too passive, say, "You are nice, but I'm not for you, I wish you the best, see you around." then walk off.
2007-02-22 04:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
P-e-r-s-i-s-t-e-n-t
2007-02-22 04:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"I am impotent"
2007-02-22 04:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋