my gf,shes nice by her face ,hair,qualification n family but the only problem is that she doesnt have u know a well shaped sexy figure,and i wonder what shud i do?
2007-02-21 19:39:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How did marriage got to your head? marriage is smth serious, and mature, but your doubts are so childish!!! Get over it! Be a real man!
goodl luck
And by the way, that sexy figure could be damaged just after your first child!!! So what are you talking about?
2007-02-21 20:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you´re doing this kind of question to yourself is because you don´t really love her, and if you keep doing yourself this kind of question you´ll never love anybody.
You´re not marrying a cover of a magazine and as far as I know no couple stays together forever because they are beautiful and sexy shaped. I married a very handsome man, the kind every woman turns around to look when we enter a place, and I cIan tell you: beauty is something you get used to, I don´t wake up everyday , 6 years to be more accurate,and think "Wow, look at my husband , how gorgeous he is!!!!". Instead i think, every single day, that I married the best person I´ve ever known.
If he was an asshole I wouldn´t marry him just because he´s handsome, but if he wasn´t so goodlooking it wouldn´t change a thing, and i would love him the same.
You should think better what kind of consideration you´re having for your partner in your relationship, because that´s exactly the considaration she, or someone else, will have with you in the future. And you won´t be young forever.
2007-02-21 20:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Juliana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should that bother you, i mean you are a couple at the moment & you must have been attracted to her to start seeing her in the first place.
I am sure that you have faults of your own and there may be things that she does not like about you however she still loves you either way.
looks are not everything & if you think that there is someone else out there with the perfect figure, pretty face etc... who's to say that they would want to date you anyway.
and as far as marrying this girl i would hold off on that for now because dating is one thing marriage is another because then there is a little thing know as divorce if you get my drift.
2007-02-21 19:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by metal_mulishaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from? You're talking about a possible wife like she's a dog. Grow up. I personally don't think your fit to marry anyone with a mindset like you've shown here.
Marrying someone means marrying "someone", not "something". If your girlfriend knew how you are describing her here, would she be proud and happy? I think not.
Don't you have trust, loyalty, respect, love and caring in your culture? All I can think of is your selfish. She doesn't have the exact figure you want, well I'm sure there's gotta be a few things about you, she doesn't think are perfect too. Get a grip man.
2007-02-21 19:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by daughter_helping 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Question here is not how she looks but that you are just plain out not that serious about her. That there is the reason you shouldn't marry her. If this is your criteria for a marriage proposal you sound too shallow and immature to ever think of marrying anyone. Maybe you think you look like some kind of Adonis but with a heart of stone thrown in. So, what you should do is forget it. Moreover what she should do is forget you.
2007-02-21 20:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u gonna love her figure or her her heart? If she is the kind of character thats suits u, r u gonna think too much? Anyway sexy gals dont last too long and u have to be alwiz watching on them as other guys are somehow wanting them u. So think about it
2007-02-21 19:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should dump her, because she doesn't deserve a superficial guy like you. Then go and ask a model for a date.
So do you have a perfect body and 6-pack abs? I suspect not.
Look at yourself, and make sure your expectations match what you have to offer.
Oh, and I agree with the first responder's sentiment if not the crudeness.
2007-02-21 19:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say dont worry about it. But because you are worring about it I say dont marry her. Is her figure going to embarrass you? Are you going to nag her about it? Doesnt sound like its the right thing for you to be doing right now. Some will say youre shallow, and I would be one of them, but its best to figure this out before you ruin her self esteem.
2007-02-21 19:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by My_Two_Centz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if you marry a girl with the most perfect figure your wildest imagination could possibly dream up....
She won't have it forever. Time and gravity has a way of changing how evreything looks. And thats even without having your kids.
2007-02-21 19:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
listen up!!!!!! looks fade over time. all the important things she has so knock off the dumb sh#t and be happy you found someone who likes u for your imperfect self.
2007-02-21 19:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by simplyme 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋