I have to go to a intake meeting for a behavior school tommorow so they can show me my classes and my bus and stuff.. I don't even know if I'm going to go, ill just let my mom go.. im scared to death to go in there, I'm very unique so what if all the kids in behavior skool laugh at me since they are there for temporarily placement since they can't behave in normal school..
but what if they make fun of me and I get beat up and what if they all talk about me??? help me plz. 10 points.
2007-02-21 19:32:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Try to remember that the other kids are/were once just as scared as you are. If you don't go tomorrow, then you won't know where everything is, and you will be even MORE nervous later when you're getting lost and your mom isn't there to help! Try to think of it as an adventure - a fresh start.
Kids can definitely be cruel. Most only make fun of other kids because they are insecure or scared themselves, so they have to pick on others in order to feel superior or brave. If you don't let it bother you (or don't let them know it does), it won't be any fun for them, and they will eventually get bored and stop. Try hard not to make fun of others - be part of the solution rather than part of the problem. Never be afraid to ask for help - that's what adults are for! Do your best - that's all you can do.
Most important of all - know that you are not alone, and that everything DOES get better as you get older! Being a kid is tough - if you can make it through that, you can make it through ANYTHING!
Hang in there and Good Luck! :)
2007-02-21 19:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by gelfling 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, I'm willing to bet that most of the kids there are just as scared as you are. Also, if there are any kids who are violent, you will be protected by the school staff. I'm sure that you realize that there are bullies in every school. Where ever you go, there will be someone to laugh at you and/or beat you up. Just make friends with people like you would anywhere else and know that everything will be fine.
2007-02-21 19:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to this school and you have to trust the adults at the school to not let those things develop. In fact, they are probably more clued in to signs of bullying and teasing, etc., than at other schools, and they know to address those problems right away.
There are some really good behavior schools around. You should wait and actually see how good such a school can be for you. I don't think you should let your fear rule at this point; it's normal to be nervous but try to not to call that 'fear'.
2007-02-24 05:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are working yourself up. Just go. Stick near a teacher. If you feel you will be attacked.. one good tecnique is not to just take it and look down, but look around at the crowd, pick one person and make eye contact. Making eye contact and asking that person to get a teacher makes them feel that it is their fault.. they are no longer part of a crowd... they will actaully feel responsilbe. That is a pyscology trick for you... I am sure you will be fine though. I think you are nervous andimaging the worst. YOu will have to go sooner or later... may as well get it over wtih. Stand wtih the other shy or nervous kids along the wall.. maybe in a few months you can talk to one of them...
2007-02-21 19:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
behavioral school isn't actually that bad,you get more individual time with the teachers who have more training to deal with different kids behaviors.don'tworry go in with a positive attitude make the best out of it,if u go in scared peoplewill se it and try to take advantage of the situation the kids can't be that bad or the would be in juvie instaed of going home every night
2007-02-21 19:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by marfanman00000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just have to deal with it. a lot of kids end up tortured like that in regular school, so you wouldnt be alone.
but i think that it would be best if you went yourself, because having your mom tell you everything would be way harder than just witnessing it yourself, and getting a feel for the school so you do know how to dress, act, etc to avoid negative interactions with the other students there.
2007-02-21 19:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is only in ur mind for now...stop asking urself negative "what ifs?" start thinking about the good things that might come up, like meeting new friends...try to forget ur worries, pray, get a good night sleep, and go to the meeting and get it over with. if it turns out bad, there's still room for making it up. be optimistic, they won't kill u ... lol.
2007-02-21 19:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by suzielyse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get those feelings over , honestly you must work on your personalty . no one make fun of you or will talk about you behind your back if you let him do it. so first be sure of yourself what are you doing ? think before you talk and talk with confidence without fear because the fear will appear on your face and body ... don't ever show your weakness and Ferne's to others .......
2007-02-21 20:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill out a bit ,its ok to be a bit nervous.i felt like that on my frst day at a new school but everything worked out and i like it more than my old one
good luck
2007-02-22 03:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥§o contagiou§♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be yourself if you are going to a behavoir issue school chances are you have something in common w/ the other students there...yall all did something to get in...and the school have better security,and better food...good luck
2007-02-22 11:57:59 · answer #10 · answered by designrgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋