by the way there is a lot of problems between my family and husbands family
2007-02-21 19:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by bossy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Any woman that doesn't want to be intimate with her husband means that she is not emotionally attracted to him. To solve the sex problem you will need to work on the other problems and reconnect again. Men don't understand that so I know it is a hard thing to go through. Maybe seek going to a counselor to help you through this.
2007-02-21 19:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all there's gotta be a reason why you have no desire to lay with your husband and perhaps you should discuss it with him. I know when I'm a major crab, my wife wan'ts nothing to do with me, all other times though, I'm golden.
As far as your husband being upset, has he asked you what's wrong? Tried to find out what HE could do to make things better?
Problems between both your families is not a good thing, not at all. Both of you need to tackle this problem before it's out of control. That definatley puts a spike between the two of you. Good luck lady, I hope things work out for you two.
2007-02-21 19:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Pontius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you friends? Was the sex good before? Maybe this is just a phase. You should talk about it together, and not just under the covers. The problems with your families might be causing problems between you two. If you can't talk about it, then you really don't have much of relationship to save.
2007-02-21 19:32:51 · answer #3 · answered by autumndaesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The family problems should not get in the way of your relationship
Perhaps,..he isn't as touchy feely anymore. At first it's always
like that. Can't keep hands off each other. Then life becomes
sedetary and so routine. Break the routine...somehow. I will bet
it's simply because he doesn't put in the effort to warm you up
first, to make YOU feel like you want him....Guys need to
understand, women need foreplay to get them in the mood.
2007-02-21 19:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the husband and his annoying family, and get a new husband. Preferably one who does not act like a spoilt brat.
2007-02-21 20:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married?
Definately there are problems causing you stress and sex is the furthest thing from your mind.
Do you still love him despite all, if yes ask him for time and work on the issues at hand.
Wish all the best and it happens.
2007-02-21 19:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it up!
this is a simplistic way to say that man is crazy about sex, but you dont, so for reals he would like to have sex two or three times if it were posible but once a day keeps the doctor away.
2007-02-21 19:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by SUAVE38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about the problems your families are having and tell him right now I am upset b/c our familys are at battle so please give me some time to heal,respect my wishes its not you its the stress of our families.lol
2007-02-21 19:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is trouble. You both need to seek counseling -- you to find out the reason for your sexual hangups, and he to realize that you are not intentionally rejecting him.
2007-02-21 19:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do someone else and be dirty
2007-02-21 19:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋