my beast friend keeps flerting with my boy friend...what should i do ???
2007-02-21 18:58:44 · 13 answers · asked by shelbieT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her what the deal is. Then tell her you wont put up with it. If she continues to do it shes not a friend. Personally I wouldnt trust her at all.
2007-02-21 19:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just gonna tell this to you straight...that is NOT a best friend..as a best friend would not Do something that rude,and inconsiderate....that is NOT a best bud...trust me!! I have been there..and I am still angry with this person..who KNEW better, and did it to me, and enjoyed it VERY much, not to MY liking!!! I am no longer her friend..after putting up with this for years and years....(I knew her for 35+ years...and we were very close friends )..but she just had no scruples..and your best friend doesn't respect you and your feelings no matter what she tells you....a true friend, honors and cares a lot about the friend..and would never think of "going there"...okay?!!!!!
My ex-friends' attitude was "I can do what I want,and she can't stop me! I really don't care...because if the guys want me, then I go for it..they are there,and available..and if they choose me,then they want me!"(To her, it didnt' matter that the guy was married,taken or whatever...I don't agree with this...there is a fine line..and I am NOT gonna stay friends with a person that is like that! NO WAY!!!)
Hon, you deserve a much better person than this girl...she doesn't have your back!!! and she never will!
Stop hanging around her...and be with your guy, alone..away from her..and find another best woman friend!!
My mom tried to tell me, but, at that time, I wouldn't listen...wish I had..my whole family and other friends,,knew I was unhappy and hurting so much, because of the way that she was...she even tried to stop me from dating my hubby now! SHe was planning to play a little game on him...just to see if he would go after her! I wouldn't let her...I was in love with my hubby to be..and I ended that, quick!!!
She was the type to say all of the time to me that all of MY boyfriends had "made passes" at her!
I talked to a woman friend of mine...whom I also worked with,and trust...she told me that "women friends will say stuff alot like this to you...but, 99% of it, is not true at all....they lie to you, behind your back...don't you believe any of it!"
SO, you stay strong...and be with your guy,and don't let her be around you, any more!!! You deserve the love, and not the stupid games that she plays....Please, hear me...I 've been there...a lot!!!I have learned!!!!
2007-02-22 03:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by ladyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have some beast friends that step over the line frequently.
i lock em in their cage and shock 'em till they wimper...
but...in all seriousness...sit back and ask yourself if it's really flirting. its easy to find urself gettin' jealous of anyone being friendly with ur main man. if u truly find it offensive...confront her, tell her she's stepping over the line and she needs to respect your friendship.
then smack your boyfriend a couple of times for letting it go on so long...j/k!!!
2007-02-22 03:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jamon Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had "girlfriends" who show their coochies to my ex-husband.
They were that brazen. I just told them to get the hell outta my
life..and don't come around ever again! They didn't. You have
to draw the line somewhere. Plus,..they aren't really YOUR
friend then. You don't neeed that drama. Kick her to the curb!!
2007-02-22 03:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it to the pound ASAP!We are not to have relations with the beasts!
2007-02-22 03:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Frogmama2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about it...tell her that she's doing sumthing that isnt ryt..and if she never listen... dont be scared, if ur boyfriend rily loves u... he knows wats ryt and tell him wat u think ur FRIEND doing to ur relationship...he should know it,,s0 he would not let that beast flirt him agen...
2007-02-22 05:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by bHeibHie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them both. he's also implicated in that staff. ih he said "No" she would have let it down. if she is continuing that means he is OK with that.
Good luck dear
2007-02-22 03:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ghaloushka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that it's bothering you and to stop and if she says it's nothing then tell her you would rather her stop it anyway and if she doesn't then she's not a very good friend
2007-02-22 03:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by icesis_river 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw them both from you life. can you do it?. ignore them and their things. if it's gone worse. you have to talk with both of them
infront of each other.
2007-02-22 04:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not respecting your feelings so she is not your best friend find another one
2007-02-22 03:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Shereen N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋