My daughter is pregnant and her boyfriend cant hold a job and hes a jerk im supporting her shes19 she could do alot better how can i make her see that hes a loser.
2007-02-21 18:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by dan m 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
both quit school hes a jerk when not taking his meds and is selfcenterd the rest of the family cant stand him
2007-02-21 18:59:34 · update #1
just ask her to leave the jerk. it should be her decision whether she can support the kid or get abortion. if she does, then family should take care of her and her kid as she is only 19. rather than scolding her, she needs support and a peaceful environment.
2007-02-21 19:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by chandana b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that to your daughter. Best thing you can do is give her support and help her out and give her advice about how to be a great mom and be independent. All you'll be causing is extra stress for her. If your open about what you think of her bf she might end up moving out and be in a worst situation than where she is now.
If anything talk to her BF and tell him whats expected of him. Eventually your daughter will realize what a mistake that guy is.
2007-02-21 19:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit your daughter down and talk to her. Tell her all that is involved in raising a child. She should know that her boyfriend needs a job now that ever before.
You can't continue supporting her now that she is pregnant.
2007-02-21 20:17:55 · answer #3 · answered by em_babe05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can support your daughter and talk with her about your feelings but unfortunately in the end it is her life . Just support her and hopefully she will realize the guy is not in her best interest or the babies. congratulations to you both and good luck
2007-02-21 19:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by simplyme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion u need get a little less involved in her business.
she is 19 and u are supporting her but don't do her any favors....support her if you can/want....or send her packing.
but u definitely need to stay out of her business if u support her or don't.
set some rules but don't tell her what to do and who to be with. that will never work.
a nice hobby will also help you keep your mind away from your daughters business.
2007-02-21 19:14:15 · answer #5 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont support her... after she realizes how bad he is doing, and realizes how right u were. she come back
2007-02-21 18:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problem arising in wester countries all
2007-02-21 18:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋