i have a birthday problem, will someone help me?

Question

i am 14 turning 15, i'm inviting all my friends that are around
my age. i baby sit this 10 year old girl, named katie (she thinks that we"re friends) she saw me giving out invitations to my friends,
and shes like "can i come?" i said "sorry but you will get board"
i really don"t want to invite her because i want to be with my friendz that are my age. and all we"re going to do is hang out,
talk about boyz, you know teen partying, i don"t think that a 10 year old girl would
like to do that.....
now she is so MAD at me, she keeps on asking
me why she can"t come
she is actting
like a bit*h
but i don"t want to
be an bad exzaple.
how am i going to handle this??????

Answer 1

Invite her ,, but first talk to her parents and tell them that it's not possible for her to attend the party cause ( tell them good execuses ) but you gonna invite her just to not hurt her feelings ...

So , when she tell her parents about the going to your birthday Party ,, they will say no to her ( don't go ) ...

Easy ,, isn't it ?

Good Luck

Answer 2

you can either tell her that the party is cancelled, or buy her a little something as a gift and take it to her after your birthday and tell her that you were thinking about her all night and it was not as fun without her. That way she'll know you were thinking about her. also tell her that she wont know anybody there, and you have to be with 30 people at once and you can spend only like 3 minutes with each person and her, and that everyone knows each other and it will be very hard for her to find anyone or anything to do.
The easiest thing is to tell her your party is cancelled and you'll go to dinner with your parents.

Answer 3

Tell her that you will be doing things that's not appropriate for her age. You are not that much older but there is a big difference between 10 and 15.

Answer 4

You are the older one and she most likely looks up to you. Don't dis her. Instead explain that it is not age appropiate, when she gets older she will understand. Invite her for some time with just you and her for your birthday, perhaps go get an ice cream or something!

Good luck

Answer 5

Maybe one night you can have a sleep over with her and tell her this is your special birthday party just for the two of you. That way she will feel special and not feel left out. Make invitations and make snacks, you know that kind of stuff.

Answer 6

Simply, invite her to a small party. Then make up the real party without her knowledge. Let the real party at your friend house for example.

Good luck!

Answer 7

Try to do something else with her! Take her to cinema or to have something to eat and tell her that you take her out for your birthday!
If that's not enough for her invite her! I don't think she will harm your party! Nevertheless she won't be able to stay late!
You can ask her mother to come and pick her up early!

Answer 8

Well she might not like boys yet so tell her that you guys ar ejust gonna talk about boys and stuff. Or dont tell her that and just tell her that shes too cool to go to that party. Kids are gullible ya know? Or just make it up to her somehow by buying her something.

Answer 9

You'll just have to be firm about your decision and tell her that it is for your age-group friends and that if you were to invite anyone younger, she would have been one of them. Unfortunately, you are not inviting anyone younger, so she'll have to wait till she's a little bit older.

Answer 10

I find the truth is the best answer. She is not old enough to come since everyone will be your age. Its kind of a preview to what its like to being a guardian. As much as we want to be friends with our children, we are the parent first. Welcome to just a few of your life's lessons learned.