can anyone tell me why women will not talk to me when they find out that i have no income and i am waiting on?

Question

my ssi disability and all i want is to start a relationship and maybe lead to marriage but women will not give me a chance to do this

Answer 1

Since you're asking this question, I will offer you a very honest answer. Please note that it is not my intention to be rude or insulting at all, I simply am offering my opinion on the answer.

Ok, when a woman hears "I have no income," regardless of the reason, this basically equates to big-time baggage in her mind. She probably figures you're broke, and that any relationship that develops will be a hardship. I know this sounds harsh, but I think it's human nature to not want to enter into something brand new when it's going to be a struggle and up-hill battle from the get go.

For all any of us know, you could have been disabled by rescuing orphans and kittens from a burning building. In the perfect world, people would love each other for who they are and not their income. Unfortunately, most women do not work this way. To hear you have no income makes her wonder if she'd have to pay for everything, or even worse, if you have no drive in life &/or you're simply lazy. It's just easier to walk away from a situation like that than it is to stick around and see.

While I highly suggest you always stay honest when meeting someone new, perhaps when explaining "what you do" you should also include your plans for the future to show that you're motivated and driven. Maybe find some volunteer work that you can do from home or on the internet to fill your days. What woman wouldn't love to hear about that? Also, I'd suggest that you don't launch into your whole ssi disability story unless she asks you about it, as you have no reason to explain yourself. ***Don't make excuses or apologies for your situation, conduct yourself and your situation with pride and respect and others will follow your lead and will also treat you this way.***

Good luck!

Answer 2

Heres the truth, plain & simple!
1. Once a women hears no income, many thoughts come to mind. Lazy, incompitent, slob, hates working for a living, & so on & so forth.
2. Waiting on disability when a women hears it means a few different things like, ya right when can you ever trust the government to pay out, or ya sure in a few years from now or ya right this guy has one of the lamest excuses for not working.

Well I hope this wasn't to brutal but at least I was completely honest with my answers. Now at least you know what types of thoughts women have pending your subject.

Maybe spruce up your answers to women of how & what you plan to do with your life while on disability or waiting for it. Maybe volunteer a couple hours here or there, maybe you have a life planned still with work but with a lesser degree of strength (& this to a women is still work), and now I'm out of ideas.
I hope those 2 suggestions help you just a little bit!
Good luck,
Nicole

Answer 3

Women want to know that their children will be taken care of. It's hard to take care of a wife & kids on SSI. Money shouldn't matter, but it does.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with being on ssi, if u need to be.
Don't waste yur time on a gal who is totally turned off.
Cause that means she is looking for $$$ or just not
attracted to you. Either way...if she takes off like a bat
outta hell just because of that...well, she isn't worth your time.

Answer 5

Your just in a rough patch with meeting all the gold diggin b*tches in the world. Your wife will come around try not to let this hold you back from trying.

Answer 6

Money is security, no matter how you want to look at it. It does not make a relationship, but it certainly can break it!

Answer 7

They don't want to depend on ssi.

Answer 8

try to make money.
don't be lazy!

but one more thing. women all are like that.
they only wants 2 things: Gifts, Talking
men wants: Sex, Not talking

Answer 9

Alot of women want a man w/ alot of money.

Answer 10

well baby you are meeting the wrong women