So - I'm dating this girl. I suppose that makes me bisexual if you have to put a label on it. I am pretty sure that it is about to hit the physical level and I dont know what to do. Normally when I am ready to get a guys attention I wear my cutest little outfits. I don't know if that is what I should do here. What type of undergarments should I wear? This is going to be her first time with a girl, and I want to wear something that she would like. She is a little quiet and reserved. Any help on this would be great.
Thanks.
2007-02-21 18:21:00 · 17 answers · asked by APducky 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Awwwwww This is so sweet..I love this posting : )
I think you should look your best for her..Im sure she'll appreciate it and go nutts inside her quiet self : ) BUT whatever you do B yourself : )
2007-02-21 18:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should just ask her! I love having conversations like that with my girlfriend...we always ask each other what kinds of things we like, and what we want, and what turns us on. We're both pretty turned on just by each other, and we both like womanly outfits... But everyone is different. Talk to her! ^^
Another note: if it's only the first time, don't be fancy and do something totally out there like show up in total no-crotch lingerie or whatever. Be natural and wear normal things and get to know each other intimately. Don't worry! ^^
Next Day Edit:
I felt the need to also say that we're both not lesbians! We both were attracted to men before so we knew how to look good for guys, so I totally know what you mean by that. However, just wanted to assure you that it doesn't really change--in fact, being with a woman makes me feel more secure about my body, and a lot of guys expect me to look completely perfect while she thinks I'm perfect just the way I am, d'you know what I mean? Good luck, you two! n_n
2007-02-22 02:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the person, and the type of couple you are.
if yous are both girly then this is what i loved about my ex girlfriend (we were both girlyish)
she had curly white blonde hair, i loved it when she wore it messy and down , big turn on.
she had a tongue ring, huge turn on
she used to wear the cutest underwear , lots of pinks , and lacey and frilly and cute as
She has these big green eyes and used to wear lots of mascara and she had the hugest eyelashes..kinda sounds like some sort of fetish but her eyelashes were a big turn on for me
wearing no bra under white shirts
smiling often, a cute cheeky grin
longer flowing skirts..i preferred it when she wore longer flowing beachy skirts rather than short denim skirts..im not too sure why.
nipple rings are hot
dresses are really really sexy
2007-02-22 02:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by LostMyMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to people who have not been there and done that. These guys answering are not lesbians. How would they know what a woman likes without asking her. Try to think about the things she says she likes when you converse? Or what kind of clothes does she wear?
2007-02-22 02:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hun, just wear whatever you would when you go out with a guy. Wear whatever makes you feel attractive, and be yourself. Hope all goes well for you and that you have fun.
2007-02-22 08:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww...that's so sweet. I think just being yourself would do the best. I'm sure you can show how you feel about her when you are yourself the most.
Good luck and I hope you two will have great time. Take care!
2007-02-22 02:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Este 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well I'm pretty simple if my gf wants to impress me with her underwear...ima big fan of thongs, and boy shorts..i prefer solid or lace...lingerie is always a plus 2..but when shes in her street clothes i love tight jeans and cute tops that are fitted..
2007-02-22 02:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try wearing something similar to what she wears.
2007-02-22 03:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Shruti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ton of perfume take a bath inn it and wear nothing else.
2007-02-22 08:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as for undergarments you could wear:
something sexy (i.e. black underwear & black bra) but not too wild (i.e. thong)... since you said she's quiet and reserved.
oh- also make sure you shave (or trim) "down there"
2007-02-22 02:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sammy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋