Ejaculation and Orgasm are not really the same thing.
It is possible to ejaculate semen (come) without having a true orgasm.
And orgasms come in many different sizes and levels of quality.
Men get so caught up in the sex act that they often try too hard and come too soon.
If you start slowing down--even if you are just masturbating--and learn not to hold your breath and bear down, but rather breath and let your body relax, the quality/intensity of your orgasm will increase dramatically.
This is why many people will tell you that the best sex they have ever had was when they were high on Pot.
But that's just because pot lowers our inhabitions, making us more relaxed and willing to "go with the flow" so to speak.
YOU can teach yourself to lower your own inhabitions.
One way is Yoga. Yoga can really increase your awareness of how your body is full of stuff that you don't need.
You can learn auto-hypnosis through many tapes available at Self Help bookstores.
Or, you can experience what is known as "Tantric Massage". You won't find this in the phone book, because it is--eventually--a massage of everything from your head to your toes. It can take a long time, but that is just the point of it: we humans have the unique capacity to extend our lovemaking/sexual activity. Yet so often we reduce it to a matter of having an orgasm.
Lots more to say on this, but you didn't ask for this much!
G.E.T. RN, LCMT, CNMT
Registered Nurse (retired)
Licensed Certified Massage Therapist
Certified Neuromuscular Therapist
2007-02-21 18:23:01
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answered by gordios_thomas_icxc 4
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If you have to ask then I don't think you had one. Trust me you will know when you have an orgasm. It will be the best feeling your body has ever experienced.
2007-02-21 23:58:01
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answered by Anonymous
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An orgasm is the climactic period of sexual intercourse. In men, it's the period of ejaculation of sperm and in the female, the releasing of egg with accompanying discharges. It lasts long in women than men since they have multiple orgasms. It begins in puberty where male and female are capable of reproduction.Since you are already 21, you already experienced it.
2007-02-21 18:12:36
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answered by Anonymous
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It is a fantastic feeling from your body and your mind too. You'll be shivering, you musle will keep pushing out your "juice" out of your body, your blood will be moving so fast makes you feel getting hotter.
Have you ever the experience of drinking the Italian "Grappa"? You can feel the wine is going through your thoat, it stops right in the middle of your chest and then starts to burn. Like a flower is blooming, like the beautiful fireworks exploding in the sky, like a little fire is burning in your chest.
Orgasm is the same feeling too, but not in your chest, but in your brain, in your mind.
Then you will feel so warm all over your body, like a little warm stream rinsing inside your body, from your head to your toe. you feel weak and exhausted but nice and peaceful, you feel a lot pleasure and relax.
I love it, and I love the one who takes me to it.
2007-02-21 18:46:32
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answered by Shanghai Amanda 2
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Jakery S: Birds!: Flying from the Pepe!
2007-02-21 18:11:47
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answered by Captain M 3
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Actually it is smiting that need to feel....can not be explained. How to feel it...while having sex...if you feel that you are now have wings and fly in the sky......and having pleasure that you can not explain called orgasm.
2007-02-21 18:10:11
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answered by dibesic 2
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Enjoy...you are only getting started! It is an addicting feeling of release, of friction, and of pressure in your intimate area.... I remember my first! I don't have the words!
2007-02-21 18:27:10
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answered by Susan 3
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It's a peak of sensation before ejaculation. This can be experienced during sexual intercourse or masturbation.
Good Luck, dude!!!
2007-02-21 18:09:17
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answered by Ch'ng 3
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I remember my first and I didn't know what the heck it was either. It was pretty lame, actually. Just a bit of a tingly rush all of a sudden.
In any case, it's just a release of built up blood and tension in your nerves, so it's like a release of energy through your whole body.
2007-02-21 18:09:16
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answered by rkldwg 1
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Nothing much... ?
Then you didn't have one, trust me.
Look it up on the web.
2007-02-21 18:17:04
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answered by elliebear 7
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