2007-02-21 17:50:18 · 16 answers · asked by ACME 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There was no set time, took a little time for myself to appreciate being single , gave it a few months and started dating again. Each individual is different though, you need to wait until you feel comfortable about it.
2007-02-21 17:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not long at all remember you are getting a divorce for a reason. I think the only way you can try to forget what happened with him or around that era is to go out and meet different people. sitting at home is just goin to make you more miserable. it's not going to do you any good to sit at home, you don't have anyone to answer to anymore of where you are to go and what to do. go have some fun. divorce can be a good thing and a bad it's just how you want to take it.
2007-02-22 03:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by leapinlezard 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if this helps but im 13 and my parents are divorced but with my situation my dad was looking for another woman. and when they did get divorced my mom didn't start seeing people unltil about a year and even then it was alot of on/off relationships with many people. not until 2 years of that has she gone staedy for about a year and a half.-it takes time. you need to refresh youself from your old love...take time
2007-02-22 01:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by johnny_girl1001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should NOT ever date after divorce or get remarry to someone else because marriage is what it is UNTIL DEATH !!! Does anyone wants to keep their integrity WHOLE ? Then don't date or get remarry . Anyone who truly cares for their integrity and their lifetime commitment with their ordained spouse won't ever date or get remarry. Lifetime means until death. Dating and remarry after divorce is adultery !!! It is so wrong but people in our sociaty today could care less for their ordained marriage and commitment and be loyal and have integrity. No one fells out from love , they fell out from commitment. People change marriages like they change their socks these. Commitment means nothing anymore and it is great sadness. People in our sociaty is calling wrong right and right wrong. Our sociaty need more people who is willing to stand for righteous and don't want to compromise to the world's ways. My husband { Paul Heinz } was the one who initiated divorce while he was living with my x - best friend 5 1/2 years ago. My husband destoryed his integrity because he wanted to be a quiter and he could care less to be loyal to HIS ordained wife { me } and to his ordained family God gave him to have for his WHOLE lifetime. I did NOT wanted the divorce because divorce should never be an option no matter what in marriage and I'm NOT a quiter. It is so sad that my husband was thinking more of himself than me and our 3 precious children. Adultery is so wrong and the fact that my husband chooses to do it , means that he is not ready to turn HIS will over to God. I know to be true down deep in my heart that my husband is truly born again , Paul would NOT be where he is now , he would be with me & our children still. My husband needs to HIT rock bottom to see the real light. Need to pray for him to be save whatever it takes. Well God is in the people business so I can trust him because he knows what he is doing and he does not ever make mistakes too. I WON'T EVER date or remarry because my husband is the man I love and married until death.
2007-02-22 03:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by June H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It has been 8 months and I haven't dated yet.I want to take time to enjoy my own company "find myself".
The other factor is I don't trust men anymore.AT ALL.!
But if you are divorced and want to date I don't see any reason you should wait.
2007-02-22 02:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional scars heal at different rates for different persons. It is for you to feel okay going out with a new person , particulrly if it is in the same station where aquaintances may remind you of the broken relationship.If you feel comfortable, go ahead.
2007-02-22 01:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its different for everyone. My wife started dating again almost instanly. I don't think I can for a long time.
2007-02-22 02:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you think it is the right time, as long as you don't date just for a re bounce then fine.
2007-02-22 02:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me about a week but i know i went way to fast. Ive been seeing the same girl for just over a year but now she wants to settle down and I'm not ready yet so I'm about to break it off.
2007-02-22 01:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Michael A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i didnt wait. i started right after the marriage. why wait for the divorce.
2007-02-22 02:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋