2007-02-21 17:49:31 · 5 answers · asked by madhoo. 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, in both depend in the choice. If you love the best person , then love marriage.
Arranged marriage are more secure because love is blind.
After all , it is depend in the one you will going to marry him
2007-02-24 12:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by seven seas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Everyone is different. Some people can't pick their partners and rely on parents or others to help them get in a marriage. If they could except and love the chosen one for them, they would be happy. Personally , I think (& majority people) prefer love marriage. Love is the center, the foundation of a marriage. If you are going to spend together forever with someone, love is essential, or you wouldn't stand being married. That's why divorce is very common. Some people realize they married the wrong person. So even with love, it still could go wrong. But at least they could only blame themselves for picking the wrong person, and they were happy and in love at some part of the marriage. With arranged marriage, if they could fall in love with their arranged partners, that's great. If they couldn't, or they fall in love with another person, it would be like living in a cage, and wishing they have freedom to choose who they want to be with. At the end, which is best and will it work? it really depends on the person.
2007-02-22 04:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged love marriage is the best. Love the one who is lovable and then take your parents advice for arranging it.
2007-02-23 03:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Vinni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehe i was thinking about this aswell...basically it depends...with love marriage...you love the person and you know them inside out...but you also know what will piss them off the most...! so you can really hurt them...and you'll probably thinking..dammit why didn't i just get arrnaged marriage hehe
But with arranged marriage...its like you don't know them...but then love grows aswell..and if you psis tehm off you might not really be bothered..(well i wouldn't be!) and you won't know how to annoy them....but then if you hav lots of fights you'll be like why didn't i just have love marriage....so like you're messed both ways hehe
the best i would say is love marriage so if you mess up you can blame yourself and not your parents or whoever arrnage your marriage, and then you can work it out together!
xxxx
2007-02-22 10:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love marriages is the best.because you marry the person u dun love will no hav anything happy love is more good cause you two love each other and see eachother everyday will hav that happy feeling believe me.
2007-02-22 02:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by cutiegirlask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋