I am 29 yrs old married to 40 yr old male. We have 2 kids together and 2 apart. We have been together for 7 yrs married for 3.He is a liar he lies about big and small things,he barely bathes his breathe smells and he doesnt like to have sex but maybe 3times a month. I used to care but now I dont .I think I am only with him so my kids can have a good life.We live in a city I hate he doesnt want to go home because he says I'll leave him(probably).I care about him but I am not in live with him nor do I think he;s in love with me but we make good decisions together I'm smart he's not.He doesnt even like to hold conversations with me.I also stopped going to church because I felt like he was going jus because i was.I feel like if I leave him everything will crumble and my kids and I will suffer into poverty because working at the bank will not take care of 4 kids.What should I do?
2007-02-21 17:44:41 · 7 answers · asked by Lynboges 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So r u going to stay in a loveless marriage forever ? Get a divorce, he has to pay for the 2 children u had with him, so that should help u financially and how about the father of the other two children, does he not pay support ? So with ur job and monies coming in for the children, u should be able to make it on ur own. Where there`s a will, there`s a way. I would think anything is better than living with someone u have no feelings for.
you`re too young to live that kind of life. Too many women have done the same as ur doing and lived their lives in misery. Just take that first step to free urself, the rest will fall in place.
2007-02-21 18:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one, be glad he only wants sex infrequently. I wouldn't have sex with him at all. What with the unwashed body and bad breath. And a liar too. Do you really want to waste the rest of your life by staying with him? Maybe you should take a lover. That should help you want to leave.
2007-02-22 03:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him and get yourself a better man for a marvelous life which is yet to be reached. All the best.
2007-02-22 01:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him things may be hard at first but there are many more guys out there that will treat you right and show you the respect and love you need
2007-02-22 01:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Russ S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.. Get alimony
2007-02-22 01:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Samara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him sounds like he is worthless...
2007-02-22 02:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by bld22_73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the heck outta there!!!!
2007-02-22 02:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋