i have 3 kids and i love my husbans very much but the sex could use a little excitement i think that i need to try something different but i dont have much of an imagination. could you give me some ideas to spice up my sex life.
2007-02-21 17:22:19 · 11 answers · asked by fazugosgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get rid of the kids for a night and get a room somewhere. Then leave him a note somewhere he will be sure to find it and tell him to meet you at a bar somewhere (Dont mention the room ) Get something sexy to wear... for dinner and something to change into when you get back to the hotel....Take him to dinner in your car then back to the hotel( I suggest getting bubble bath , Champing, Strawberries < Cheese and Crackers, The works with candlelight ) then seduce him and you can ask him what he wants sexually I'm sure he has mowed it over a few times in his head and is probably afraid to ask you... Don't get mad or laugh at him... and if he does not show up at the bar dressed nice don't complain, you've taken him by surprise. Also when you are at the bar waiting for him go to a nice bar not a dump and don't let other guys hit on you make it clear that you are waiting for someone.
2007-02-21 17:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by Rock Star Outlaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is gonna be fun. First, get the kids out of the house like at friends or relatives. Buy the skimpiest outfit you can find, and send the hubby to get the mail or something. When he comes back in, be in the outfit. Have a chair set up in the room, and give him a lapdance. I'm talking raunchy, dirty, and purley sexual. Now he'll be all hot and bothered. Next you sensually take his pants of and give him a b**wjob to remember forever. Now he'll be down for a while. Tell him to take a bath, and start one for him. When he's up there, get a cigar, and go up there naked while smoking it, and get in the bath with him. Then do the dirty in the water.
Whew... Good Luck
2007-02-22 01:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Try a striptease and have him film it.
2)Go somewhere secluded at night and do the deed.
3)If you haven't tried oral sex - try it.
4)Try seductive clothing going out somewhere(to add even more excitement - don't wear underwear and show him the surprise after you get where you are going).
5)Handcuffs or certain other toys can be fun.
6)You really want to build some excitement for both of you - take all the suggestions, write each of them on a piece of paper and put the suggestions in a bowl for him to pick from. Call it the I'm ready to have fun game.
2007-02-22 01:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This might be a day late and a dollar short but I have been suggesting Love Coupons. You download printable love coupons from the net. However, I like making my own for my women. Lets the women or in your case leaving it as a Fill in the blanks.
For example
I will do anything at any time at any place with no questions asked. And you do exactly that. Or perhaps a coupon for 1 monster truck rally, a tool convention, fishing expose. Etc, etc. You get my drift. Do something for him.
PS, don't make any romantic coupons. Give him a chance to do that with you at his own pace. Women have a bad habit of using these coupons to their advantage and not so much for the men.
2007-02-22 01:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you need a date night. maybe a family member take the kids for a weekend night like a friday night and tyou two have an evening for dinner and a movie and come home and not have to worry about one of the kids waking up!
2007-02-22 01:34:12 · answer #5 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress upp in something sexy and do a little striptease for him. Let him watch while you masturbate. Touch yourself all over and tell him how much you wish his hands were all over you right now but make sure they aren't though by tying him up first.
Your guy will be one lucky man!
2007-02-22 10:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Monty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried the 69?
its where the circle in the 6 is you and the circle in the 9 is him.
or you try on top this time... heheheh
2007-02-22 02:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by johnny_girl1001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to use some edilbles
have some sex chat b4 course
try to paly som esex game
and the try different postions during sex
2007-02-22 01:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by aamirtaj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Darn i can think of a thousand things I have a great imagination but i would have to show you .Sorry
2007-02-22 01:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
change positions you do generaly
2007-02-22 01:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋