I am a married bisexual female. 6 months ago I started corresponding with an ex-girlfriend. Over time we have become really close friends again (platonic). She is taking a break from her relationship with her girlfriend but they are trying to work out their issues. My husband has no desire to get to know her and thinks I should end the friendship. On what level should I be able to correspond with this woman or should I continue the friendship at all? I am totally in love with my husband but we completely disagree on this issue. We have been together 11 years. We are looking for both male and female opinions on this issue.
2007-02-21 17:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by ARR30 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In a perfect world, of course you should be able to have a platonic friendship with your ex-girlfriend. But in reality, a lot of people are jealous of their partner's ex's, no matter what the genders are that are involved. Since it upsets your husband, it sounds like to a great extent, why can't you let this ex-relationship stay at a distance? I'm bisexual, and I've never dealt well with my girlfriend's ex-girlfriends or my boyfriend's ex-wives. I've tried my best to live with it, but it was very difficult at times. Why put your husband through this? Why is this so important to you?
Good luck!
2007-02-21 17:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can cause problems, I'm dealing with the same issue. I still see my ex who is now married, and her man is just really intimidated. Although, you may love your husband you can easily fall astray to your ex if there is still an attraction, which I'm sure there is. Be honest with yourself, her man has every right to feel that way because we still sleep together every Chance we get, and she runs to me for everything. My advice, you may want to back up a little from her and respect your man and his feelings.
2007-02-22 01:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Vanity 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
would you be alright with your husband starting a friendship with someone he had a relationship with previously? if you are, youre not like me, or probably most people..
i don't even know why you would put your husband in this situation to begin with.. you found someone that you love and who loves you, dont jeopardize that to be friends with someone who obviously a relationship with was not meant to be
2007-02-22 01:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by xander d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get closer and more intimate with your ex-girlfriend and keep the relationship with your husband platonic.
2007-02-22 06:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
simple, just do a threesome with your husband. But make sure he does the both of you and both of you do him. That way it would be ok for you to see her and be with him.
2007-02-23 06:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are confused. You can't be married and bisexual! You are a greedy homosexual who wants to have her cake, eat it with whip cream, and a cherry on top! You don't need to worry about friendships you need to straighten out who you are??? Seriously! I hope you do not have any children in this union, please practice birth control, save the world from any of your
future progeny. OK.
2007-02-22 01:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Goodfor52 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
u should break it off with ur ex ...thats my advice if u dont want to ruin ur marriage....
2007-02-22 01:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋