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When I was with my ex we had a joint bank account and I signed of when we broke up. Recently a letter arrived from the bank at my fathers house (this was the address we used when we opened the account as we moved a lot with the army before we broke up we had changed the address to the house we were at then) The bank has had some sort of accounting or security error it was in the news (I didn't pay attention as I don't bank there anymore and haven't since I signed off the account in the summer of 1999) I haven't talked to him since then but, his grandmother always stops and talks with me when I see her.I don't have the letter as I told my dad to return to sender it.

2007-02-21 17:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by emmandal 4 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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If the Bank is trying to claim something he really owes them, don't bother. But if you know it to be false or unfair claim, it is okay to let him know and advise him to to get in touch with the Bank or tell his Granny when you meet her.Divorces and signing off happen for a wide variety of reasons.But basic human decency should not be forgotten for these reasons.I am glad that the thought of notifying him crossed your mind.

2007-02-21 17:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Depends on what you want to do. If you are on good terms with your ex and talk to him regularly then tell him; which you probably would have already done if you were on speaking terms. If you know how to get a hold of your ex, put that information in a letter and let the bank know. Otherwise return to sender and let the bank hunt him down.

2007-02-22 01:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by sandcatsle 5 · 0 0

Give the bank a forwarding address or phone number to reach him. It's the right thing to do if someone has been trying to access his account thats not him or it could he even be that he screwed up and could be in trouble with it, so definitely let him know if it could be that :-p, But you could just tell his grandmother there was an issue his bank needed to talk to him about and have her give him the number for them.

2007-02-22 01:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by kloops1 4 · 0 0

Nope, he should have given people his info when he left. And if that account isn't being used anymore, you were responsible enough to sign off on it and he was not. His problem.

2007-02-22 01:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0 0

absolute you were married it could be something about the joint account

2007-02-22 01:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well theirs not much you can do about it now it was sent back just let it go

2007-02-22 01:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0 0

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