I have been with my husband for 6 years, we got married Dec 05, and haven't used any sort of protection in 5 years. We've tried off and on for about two years to have a baby, but the disappointment is really too much, so we end up slowing down. I've been hoping that the breaks in trying (a couple months after about 3 or 4) would relax us if that's the problem but alas, no results. I think it's unusual that since we're both in our early 20's, we haven't gotten pregnant. We've been to the doctor, charted my fertility, quit smoking and eating junk food (basically revamped our whole lives to be able to have a baby) and everything is the way it should be. I guess it's all about the math now. What I'd like is some tricks women have used to become pregnant; foods and herbs that promote fertility, and any other advice besides "relax" because I don't think I can take hearing that again.
2007-02-21 16:58:23 · 7 answers · asked by garcia_lives86 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
when my sis in law was going thru the same thing it was suggested she go on birth control pills for a month then stop taking them. she now has 3 kids. good luck i hope you conceive its a beautiful thing.
2007-02-21 17:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, no relax...i promise. It sounds like you are doing a lot of proactive things which is really good. Eating healthy and getting yourself into good health is a great idea for anyone who is trying to conceive. I'm sure you are already taking a prenatal vitamin (this won't help fertility but it is a great vitamin and the folic acid helps againts birth defects). I have herd that taking vitamin b6 and vitamin E are really good for fertility as well as drink green tea or regular (Orange pekoe and pekoe) it contains good antioxidants.
I dont know if you have heard of pre~seed yet. It is a great lubrication that is ph balanced to help sperm live longer and swim better to the egg.
Other than that you can try all kinds of things like saliva scope (i have been using and works well) OPK's and BBT but I'm sure you already know all of that. I would be leary of herbs (i wouldnt want anything messing with my hormones unless it is from my dr) and other than that I can only say that the timing will be right for you and it will happen. Good Luck and feel free to email me if you have any other questions or just need some support!
2007-02-21 17:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
by using fact your cycle is atypical and ovulation is puzzling to pinpoint having intercourse 3/4 circumstances a week a week is huge at overcoming the placement. There are women persons persons who get pregnant quite now despite if optimal persons people take some thing from 3 months to a 300 and sixty 5 days, there is not some thing incorrect with you. Your doing each and every element quite, arms crossed for the following couple of months, perfect of fulfillment.
2016-12-17 15:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really need to relax while you are making love to each other, I have married for 6 years trying to conceive, I have tried all methods, check up, sperm count, holidays, drink herbs but it does not help. Go for the chinese gods to ask they say pray to the heaven, it will come. Thanks god I was pregant last feb & now given birth to a baby girl who is 3 months old now, & I am pregant again. So do not think too much, the more you think the more you are stressed, just relax & that is how my girl come
2007-02-21 17:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Chan S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go to a different doctor like in OB/GYN and talk to her stating that you can not get pregnent maybe you two should get tested if when of you can not get fertile, let him go to a doctor to see his sperm count and you to see if you can get fertle try to get fertlized for example you got to your OB/GYN and your husband give sperm to your egg meaning that the obgyn gets eggs out of your overy and try it like that they put your egg into a sterlized cup with your huspand's sperm and see if they get fertlized that way if so the doctors implanted the fertlized egg into your uterus and it goes from their. Good Luck but if you do this procedure you need to relaxs and just enjoy your day with your husbond go out to eat and or go out to the movies or go out and go for a slow walk in the park.
2007-02-21 17:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by shakiraalejandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try organics stores for herbal teas, or go to China town in your city and find herbals there, I drink raspberry leaf tea and you can also try yoga exercise or special massages.Good luck :-)
To Mrs.Adams: Herbals are natural,they can't hurt you if you take them, you can't overdose yourself and they have mostly no side effects(unless you have allergies). Your doctor prescribes hormonal treatments from pharmaceutical companies,they do have side effect,you can overdose yourself and they are dangerous.
2007-02-21 17:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by kraska 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you are on the right track what about excercise?? that is also important to be healthy well whatever happens goodluck!!!
2007-02-21 17:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by marinewifey_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋