The relationship has just begun. They recently even went holiday together.I keep quiet about it.Because i do not want our relationship to turn sour.Any advice?
2007-02-21 16:54:07 · 21 answers · asked by melvin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WELL, you need to investigate this one. if they been there before you came along you need to fall back and don't hate on that. just let her know i feel uncomfortable with you hanging out with them so much. let her know to included you sometimes. don't just stay quiet, she might not think its a problem but, keep your head up.
good luck, CLAUDIO
2007-02-21 17:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get too attached right now, see the way she treats you and them. Keep it like that for a month or so then tell her that you think its a little akward if she flips out about it dont panic get a good female friend and spend time with her. To make ur g.f jelous so she would realize how it feels. But dont do anything stupid right now
2007-02-21 17:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by ♠DistaUkr♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just wrong, and you are letting her get away with it, if you continue this way, she will walk on you forever. and then probably leave you anyway for not standing up for yourself. Listin to the song "self esteem" by the offspring. Dont be like that. find a good girl. I've known this type of girl before, there is no future in it. leave now, and find someone who respects you. People hang out with people they like, If shes with these other guys and not you, that should tell you something.
2007-02-21 17:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are gay, okay. If they are not , after a few more dates casually ask "What's with your 2 friends and how close are the 3 of you? She may hem and or haw but then say, our relationship is moving nicely and I might have a vested interest in things down the road and if she really gets defensive, you might want to consider she is playing head games and I wouldn't get real emotionally attached if it were me in that case.
2007-02-21 17:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by magpie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if youre in a new relationship, i would say to wait it out. I know that beinga guy makes it super hard to accept your girl having two best guy friends. But it is possible. So hopefully, you will wait a little and build some trust and then see how you feel anout the guy friends. Dont let it affect you so soon. show her you understand that they are JUST her friends.
hope it sort of helps :)
2007-02-21 16:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by metalxgrnstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have male friends that I've had for YEARS and my husband doesn't get upset. This is because I don't like girls... I'm not being rude towards girls or anything but I've always been a tom boy and lots of women like to shop, do their hair and makeup, talk about their periods... I'm not interested. I have one girl friend and 3 very close male friends but my husband is my best friend of all. However if my husband asked me to stop hanging out with them or occasionally calling them I would listen to him because obviously he has a problem with it. Speak with her nicely about it because as you just said, it's a new relationship and she might think you're trying to control her.
2007-02-21 17:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U also go on a date or on a long holiday to an exotic place with one or two of your girl friends. Enjoy life, and chances are your girlfriend will return to u, if u keep on monitoring your girl friend, she may be annoyed and leave u.
2007-02-21 16:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey the relationship has just begun so i think u and ur girlfriend have not come to the same comfortable level like what she has with her male friends.. Be patient! and one more thing, comfortness is very important in every relationship, especially in a love relationship.. Earn it..
: ) gud luck
2007-02-21 17:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by w@NEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she needs time to get used to the fact that shes in a realationship and that you may not feel comfortable with her spending so much time with guys..however, if theyre just friends don't approch the subject as if you are jealous(not saying you are)..just say hey we should spend some time together..just you and me and have a little talk with her about. Just make sure she knows that you desire to spend time with her.
2007-02-21 16:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt know how serious you are about her yet, and is trying to get you to respond by being jealous of the two male friends. this makes her feel secure in your interest, right or not.
the only things you keep quiet about in a relationship are how bad her cooking is, and how big her butt is...all else needs to be said.
2007-02-21 17:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋