why do so many females need dna testing these days?

Question

Why do men always look worse then the women when a dna test is needed how come everyone always looks at the man as a dead beat dad when he denies a child that he doesnt think is his i know its not right but i always wonder why people come down much harder on the man than the women isnt it both their faults does the women take any responsibility for sleeping around i mean isn't it her body and its her responsibility to decide what she does with it..

Answer 1

It takes 2 to screw.So both the man and woman are held responsible,but that doesn't mean they will be.

Answer 2

i wish i new. I have infact had a DNA test because of circumstances (she slept with another man 4 days before we had sex) and when i brought up the concerns she yeld at me like it was my fault she did this. I had, have no problem taking the responsabilty but nobody wants to take care of someone elses child. woman should except that the responsible as well.

To answer the question some women are just messed in the head

Answer 3

of course you're absolutely right and i agree with everything you say. its just an age old thought about the dead beat dad and the poor little damsel in distress. it might as well have somehting to do with the fact that just a few decades back, women only began to receive equal rights, and in those good old days , if you were raped, you generally "did something to deserve it", and if you were pregnant as a result, you were considered trash and a disgrace. in reverse, back in those days, men could literally get away with anything. times have changed now, but there are still those who remember those years only too well. be thankful we have dna testing now to help out both genders. i must add that at the same time, birth control is the responsibility of BOTH parties, not just one or the other's.

Answer 4

First of all, it takes TWO to make that child, and EACH need to be EQUALLY responsible for its creation (and the responsibility of raising the child to adulthood).

Having gone through a messy divorce (from a short disaster of a marriage to an abusive, violent, sociopathic ex -- one who did sleep around and made all sorts of accusations), I did not feel embarassed at all when I FULLY agreed to DNA testing (after he made all sorts of disgusting, nasty comments and started to call me bad names -- which I KNEW was untrue ...) ..


And ...

YES .. the DNA testing PROVED conclusively that HE WAS the Father (I knew it -- he was the only jerk that I ever had in my life that way) .. and would NOT apologize for the nastiness .. so I was THRILLED that that chapter of my life was done and the divorce was FINALIZED (not knowing that he would continue to torment me every so often -- through identity theft, being a DEADBEAT dad, being convicted of abusing my children, being convicted of theft (for burglarizing my home), etc etc etc ...).

So from that experience .. I think everyone should look at DNA testing as the BIRTHRIGHT of the child -- to know for SURE his exact biological parentage so that the child can have the information on the medical profile of their blood relatives (WHICH, by the way, the Ex's Family DENIED providing for my children .. so that it was so much harder to diagnose them with the Mental Illnesses that are part of the Genetics of the ex's family line).

That said .. MEN need to be HELD responsible (as well as WOMEN) for STOPPING Unwanted pregnancies. Saying NO! is not enough .. make BOTH responsible for Birth Control. IF you lay down and contribute genetically to that child .. be willing to help through the formative years!

Answer 5

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