I never get mad. Sometimes things will make me upset, but I don't physically doanything, i just kind of shrug it off and stop worrying about it almost instantly. People can **** around with me and do really stupid things and it doesn't make me mad at all. Is it okay to be like this or should i work on it? I guess its because i dont like confrontation, and i can be an asshole sometimes.. but sometimes imagine screaming at someone and it feeling so good.. i've never yelled at anybody before.
2007-02-21 16:15:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
passive aggressive. Not always a good thing
2007-02-21 16:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl143_dk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good. You're suppressing it. There's nothing confrontational whatsoever about standing up for yourself and not being the object of jokes or the easy target when people are in a bad mood and think picking on you will make them feel better. Some day you may really blow up and lose your temper like worse than you ever thought capable of a person. Go to your library and check out some self help books on how to assert yourself!
2007-02-21 17:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Monica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no, almost everytime I get mad, and punch something to get a very loud noise! thought I prever wood product, still I try to find that things would not broke when I punched it hard!!
Noise is my preference
though there's one case, which is my friend, I don't what made into him, he rarely gets mad, and if normal things that made people mad did to him, he just laughing loud (everytime I say is he crazy, in my mind). I played with him quit a lot though
2007-02-21 20:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by man miu miu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. From our life we can see decent people, friends, colleagues, etc. who can cope with their work and daily lives admirably. I think it's up to oneself regarding one's behaviors, reflection, thinking, mind control, relaxation, physical exercises, religious practices, etc. that would definitely help him/her to never be mad. I like this quote by Albert Camus (1913-1960), one of the great French authors and a Nobel Prize recipient for Literature (Do you read his novels?), that is:
"An intellectual is someone whose mind watches itself."
This infers whenever one knows/watches his mind, he will be wise and sane. Take care and good luck.
2007-02-21 20:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Arigato ne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋