At school I'm not afriad to be myself and show the stuff I like (such as tv shows, books, and video games) but people always make fun of me. I need advice.
2007-02-21 16:03:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i try to act like it doesn't bother me but it really does
2007-02-21 16:10:46 · update #1
first off sakura i think its great that u like anime. anyway be ur self and have fun because it doesnt matter what other people think of u. form the sound of it u r in middle school maybe early high school so there r more then likely little clits in ur school. dont adjust what u r to fix in the 1 maybe 2 clits but hang out w/ the people that r interseted in naruto or the other stuff u r in to because u will have the most fun with them and the people that make fun of u wel there will always be people doing that because they r trying the things that they may like from the clit that they r trying to fit in w/
2007-02-21 16:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by torres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe u shld do some homework 1st like understanding yr friends better before showing anything to them yet. It could be that stuff u interested may not be their cup of tea. Or it could be that they r not welcoming u as part of their community. This could happen to anyone not only u so next time u wanna show something make sure u hv the right person with the same interest to appreciate yr stuff so u won't get embarass again.
2007-02-22 02:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by RenRen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kudos on being yourself in front of people even though they make fun of you. It takes alot of courage to show individuality in today's society. Don't listen to what other people have to say. If you like something, don't give it up because someone else thinks it silly. That's what makes you who you are. If everyone liked the same stuff and did exactly the same things, this world would be a really boring place. Keep being yourself!
2007-02-22 00:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sacrifice yourself for acceptance. You'll find people that appreciate you. You won't find an honest person in high school. Not truly. Most are happy to be a stereotype, categorized and accepted for something they choose to "represent."
Choose now to find the person within you that you want to be...and then don't let anyone take that person from you.
High school isn't forever and you will be quite satisfied with yourself for never compromising your individuality now, years from this time.
Carry yourself with dignity. You are a unique being. What you love defines you. Don't let anyone take what you love away or drag it through the dirt of their insecurity. Don't let them take you away from yourself just to leave you with nothing where the real "you" once was. Be strong. Be kind. And don't take crap off of any of them. They have IQs equal to their shoe size and you needn't spare excess thought on their stupid comments.
"My doom and my strength is to be solitary." - Emerson.
2007-02-22 01:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by I vote Capt. America 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they make fun of you, snap back with a smart comment! Here are some things you could say...
"Oh, I'm so sorry! I'll change my interests just to make you happy, because I really value your opinion!"
"Does this face look like it really cares?"
"Wow. The way you insulted me was so lame I couldn't hold in my laughter!"
"Unlike you, I actually have some kind of talent."
People will know not to mess with you. You can make these comments harsher if the people are really mean, or not as harsh if they tease you lightly. Stay true to yourself! Good luck with the mean girls (and immature guys :P)
:)
2007-02-22 00:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Moi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids at school are very cruel of anyone going their own way. Just keep going your own way. Maybe don't be so outgoing of your choices until you make some close friends who are real friends not just "clicques" and love you for being yourself. Hang in there. I am sure yur are a beautiful person.Stay away from drugs and sex and respect yourself. You will do fine. I'm here to talk if yiou need . marileeworley1956@yahoo.com
2007-02-22 00:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by marilee w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear young Lady,
don't worry,you be the one who is rich and famous!The are just jealous,just be yourself,Payday comes in the long Run,Ks
2007-02-22 00:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by karl s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry what people think about you. being yourself is the coolest thing. they may not have life outside of school. at lease you have something you like. i say stick to your own thing. and tell them to grow up. trust me being yourself is they best thing. they just dont know it yet.
2007-02-22 00:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by hellcattiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question sweetie pie. You are NOT afraid to be yourself. Let them laugh!
2007-02-22 00:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need friends that don't make fun of you. then you will feel more free to be you. for encouragement, listen to ttb.org.
2007-02-22 00:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋